Hi, I am hoping that someone will pray for me. Since I had my son 2 years ago, I have been wanting to go and visit my grandparents (who live 8 hours drive from me) they have not seen their great grandson yet. They are both in their 80s and are not in good health. They haven't been able to come and see us because of their bad health. We haven't been in the financial situation to go and see them. My husband and I have been talking about it. I have been getting excited (after all it has been 2 years of wanting to do this) and now my husband turns around and tells me we might not have the money after all. I am feeling so hurt about this. I just want him to sit down, figure how much we will need and where we can stay etc. and then come back and tell me definitely, rather than stringing me along. If he tells me we can't go, I will be sad, but at least I have closure and can deal with it. I want my son to meet his grandparents before one of them dies. I will feel very bad for a long time if we can't get there before one of them dies. My husbands response? "It's not my fault they live so far away" 
