Please pray for me

[Hunter979]

I have recently fallen upon bad times, with the worst of this being the loss of the love of my life (Lindsey).She left me and since then I have realised just how much I dearly love her.Everything Ive tried to get her back has failed & Im at a complete loss.I love her with all my heart and soul.I did not see this before.I knew I loved her but didnt realise just how much! I was so wrong to do the things that pushed her away from me.During this time I have turned to God.I have changed so much since then.I see the sins I committed and pray to God for forgiveness.I go to church now & have even volunteered there.This experience has ended up changing my life for the better,(with me coming back to God) & Im now a better person;but despite this Im still lonely and empty without Lindsey.She is "the 1" for me,my heart (& something more) tells me so.Something pulls me towards her,I honestly just can't explain it.We shouldnt have even met but for some very strange & (until now) unexplainable things.Its proof that God brought us together.The things that happened could only have been intervention from God.While we were going through our difficulties I repeatedly heard a voice that told me to stop our quarreling,let the anger go & not let her go from my life.That she is special.I did not listen to this voice or the warnings,I was closed off to Gods help.Since then I have found myself,& peace.Please pray for us to rekindle our relationship.I have come back to God,which shows that anything is possible,because I was down in a very dark place - but no longer! Please pray for us to come back to a loving relationship again. I thank you for your time & help.

P.S. For others in need of prayers: Whatever the situation you're in I know for a fact that there is always hope.Don't lose hope or faith.God works in mysterious ways.

 

[Tab]

You say nothing about your age - are you 16 or 60?

You did say that you quarreled. Possibly Lindsey saw immaturity in you that you didn't know was there, or that you failed, or refused, to deal with. Maybe Lindsey is at fault. However, if the two of you can't get along now, what do you think life will be like for the two of you ten years from now? What you need to do is back away from your emotions and take an honest look at the facts.

This thread is for non-Christians. You say that you are back with God now. I'm not sure exactly what you mean by that. However, you're most important need is to make absolutely sure that you are a Christian - a person who has been saved - a person who has been born again - a person who has been redeemed - a person in whom the Holy Spirit of God dwells - a person who has peace with God - a person who knows that he will spend eternity in heaven. Are you that person? If not, then you now know where you need to start.

Tab

 

[ProCommunioneFacior]

praying

 

[invisiblebabe]

I know what it's like.... happened to me a number of times, including an ex-fiancé back in January. I am praying that God will restore your heart, and bring to it new life, joy, and vitality

Oh, and I feel I should mention this, too: you say that you're sure God wants you two together and married 'cause of some quite weird circumstances/coincidences that brought you together. Well.... I have no reason to doubt that God had you guys meet for a reason.... but coincidences or "signs" are no valid reason to assume that this girl is the one. Take it from a girl who screwed that up royally a few years ago.

God has an amazing plan for your life... and if you delight in Him, He will give you the desires of your heart

 

[Hunter979]

A reply to the replies,

I'm 23 (as shown in my profile) Lindsey is 21. We are both mature adults, otherwise we wouldn't have been in a serious relationship. We could get along and indeed had alot of love in our relationship, it's just that at the time we were both quarreling abit due to high stresses in our lives, namely health, works & Uni (among others problems in our lifes). We had tough days and took things out on each other (I know, not a good thing!). Our breakup became a case of not being able to deal with all the stress in our lives. The last argument was just the final straw. We couldn't cope with the extra stress. There was always caring, love and support in the relationship (from both of us), right up to the end. Also neither of us had been in a serious relationship before, and didn't really know how to go about things once they got serious. I take most of the blame for this as I think I got too serious and ended up putting too much pressure on her (not sexually before you think it!!) I caused many of the arguments (I was really stressed at the time) and I am truly sorry for ruining the best thing that EVER happened to me and Lindsey. It was a combination of factors that occured that ended something that really was special (we both said, many times, how special a relationship we had ). We both felt blessed. We just lost our way. (But I take most of the blame).

I still believe (having objectively looked at our relationship, situation and facts) that Lindsey is "the one" for me. It was more than just afew circumstances that happened (on both sides) for us to meet, and also, for us to get together. It's not just my emotions that convinces me shes "the one", I don't know how to explain it, I just KNOW that she is. I am still desperate to rekindle our relationship.

I have found peace and I am a changed person. I realise how wrong I was. Oh and just for the record I can confidently, comprehensively and categorically confirm that I AM a Christian I am born again!

I thankyou for all your prayers, and thankyou for any future prayers (I still need them unfortunately). Please pray for us to come back to a loving relationship again. I will gladly return the prayers if you need any, and pray diligently, to the fullest of my ability. Thankyou for your time and support, may you all be blessed.

 

[Christian Outcast]

Dear Heavenly Father,

Bless this man with the desires of his heart. Bring him and his love back together. His love for her is pure and holy. He puts his faith in You and knows that You have a reason for everthing that happens. Help him be the man he needs to be so that the love of his life may return to him. In Jesus's sweet name I pray.

Amen

I know how you feel and If you ever need me I am always here for you.