please pray for me - lonely

[cee2002]

Hi I know nobody knows me but I would really appreciate it if someone could pray for me.

Im going through a really rough time at the moment (just found out that my b/f of 7 years has cheated on me - he was my life, my best friend and everything) and Im trying to be strong - but some days I just cant cope.

I moved to a new city to be near him, and so Ive got no friends here and now Im really lonely.

The only christian people I know are my family who live in my old city, but I cant talk to them about whats happened.

I keep praying to God to help me, and I know he does, but sometimes I think why would he want to help me, when Im just nothing and Im the one who's got myself into my messes. Sometimes Im crying so much I cant even pray so then I feel really guilty.

I dont know what to do and just feel really alone. I want to be surround by Christian friends, and I want to find a church - but its so hard to walk into a church on your own. I could do with some christian friends

And apart from that I feel like my life is a mess. I dont want to just live day by day, going into work coming home, watching tv, and doing the same thing again. I want to *live*, enjoying the life God has given me and enjoying friendships and families. I feel like Im on the wrong path at the moment. That maybe God has something else intended for me. But I dont know what. And how do I get on the right path?

Ive never felt more alone and confused in my life.

thanks.....
cee

 

[Kristen]

You have a friend in me . I am praying for you. Please know that there are alot of loving Christians here if you ever need to talk. God Bless you Cee!

 

[Kristen]

OH and [GLOW=skyblue]WELCOME [/GLOW]

So happy you are here!

 

[katiyakat]

Hello and welcome from a fellow Brit!

I'm so sorry you're feeling so down . I and so many others here are very glad that you've joined us, and we'll be praying for you. I pray that you find happiness soon, and in the mean time take care of yourself and God bless. Katy

 

[Blynn]

I am sorry that you are having such a rough time. I am praying for you.

I would also like to welcome you to this forum. This is such a great place for fellowship. I think you could make a lot of friends here.

God bless you
Roberta

 

[wvmtnkid]

Hi Cee!

First of all welcome! And you have in friend in me as well. I have been in the same place you are in. I too have lost a boyfriend that was my best friend. When he walked out of my life I was lost. Let me tell you what not to do, though. I became very angry with God and grew very far apart from him. I let anger and resentment and pain just grow in my heart. I was miserable. Nothing in the world could help heal my hurt. But finally I had just had enough. I surrendered all my hurt and pain to God and He has helped bring me closer to Him than I have ever been. Now it didn't happen overnight but I can see how I have grow in ways I never would have imagined.

I know it may be hard right now for you, but probably one of the best things you can do now is find a church. Maybe you could find one that has a good, active singles group. And not just to find dates but to also find friends who will be able to offer you support. And just pray. Pray for healing and direction and God will answer. I'll be praying for you too! I'm here whenever you want to talk!

Take care!

 

[SeRapH&CheRi]

Cee,
oh honey, know that you are so loved by us here. we are here for you if you need prayer and encouragement. allow this time for grieving, but it is also important to talk about it with people you really trust. know that God loves you and is there to comfort and heal you. praying for you.....
S&C

 

[amie]

Hi Cee,
I want you to know that I am praying for you always. If you ever need someone to talk to I am just a click away...Love and blessings to you always...
Amie

 

[psycmajor]

I'm terribly sorry about the recent things that have happened in your life. I know what loneliness is like, too well sometimes. I'll be your friend!

 

[hotwu]

i guess sometimes it's just nice to know other people are listening. i can sympathize with what you are going through and i will keep you in my prayers...

 

[Blessed-one]

i'll be praying, may God draw you closer to Him and provide you with a circle of Christian friends.

Welcome to Christian forums, *give cee a hug*