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Please pray for her and me

Trayalc

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A while back, I asked you guys for prayers regarding a relationship that I ended. She and I had dated around 5 months, and I've prayed every day since then for her and for us. Gradually, over time as I prayed these prayers, the situation started to become more restricting. Circumstance after circumstance were blocking our way to each other. I wondered if God was telling us "No" or "Not right now." I let her go in November when I felt like I personally couldn't handle it anymore.

Admittedly, we became involved with one another again around mid-December. We saw each other after months during Passion 2020. While it was wonderful to see her, when I realized that we were about to jump into the exact same situation, I felt a turmoil/conviction inside me unlike ever before. So I let her go again. And this time it feels real. I'm watching as she tries to forget about me and move on.

This is a time of profound confusion, frustration, and hurt. She has been my best friend, my supporter, my companion. I feel so empty and lonely after letting her go. It feels like I am single-handedly destroying our bond that we share. I'm watching as it crumbles because of me, and it makes me feel awful. But I also know I can't go back to trying to make that relationship work. I'm trying to trust that this was God's will and that He was providing all the signs that I was asking for, but how quickly I doubt and become discouraged.

Asking for prayer and encouragement right now please. For both her and me. I don't know how to move forward from here.
 

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Praying for you both! Hang in there, If you two are meant to be together God will provide the opportunity in his perfect timing. Sometimes situations arrive in the future where you may reconnect again without the feeling of trying to hard to make a relationship work. God bless you both!
 
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Trayalc

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Praying for you both! Hang in there, If you two are meant to be together God will provide the opportunity in his perfect timing. Sometimes situations arrive in the future where you may reconnect again without the feeling of trying to hard to make a relationship work. God bless you both!
Thank you so much. I know that God will bring us back together if it is His will. Or He will provide someone better suited for each of us. It's just very hard to wait and be patient in the mean time. I so easily forget about His promises and become discouraged and doubtful.
 
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