VerySadMom said:
Please help me with my daughter. She is 14 years old, gave her life to Christ when she was 12, and now claims she is a lesbian. She has only kissed a girl, but that is enough.
I do not know what to do, I've cried, I've prayed. I love the Lord with every fiber of my being, and know that all tribulation will eventually glorify Him. In the meantime, I could really use some advice. Please help us to sort this out. I will check in from time to time and any help or advice is truly welcomed.
Also, we really need prayer, please pray for her to find her way back to Christ, and to be unconfused about her sexuality. Please pray that God steers her in the right direction towards hetrosexuality and to like boys. May He bless you for your intercessional efforts on our behalf. Thank you.
She needs to realize that SHE is in control of who she is. just because she thinks she is something that does not make it true. She is decieved if she thinks she has to be a lesbian just because she finds girls attractive. I think that probably all girls find other girls attractive and it is no shame. She will miss out on alot of fulfilling blessings in her life and drag others into the same pit she is in is she continues to let deception rule her actions and choices. let her know that you in no way are trying to judge her but that you want her to experience all the joy of a happy marriage with a member of the opposite sex and having children and you want to see her reach her full potential.
Use Romans 2:1-2 to assure her that you are not trying to tell her what to do- "Therefore thou art inexcusable, O man, whosoever thou art that judgest another: for wherein thou judgest another, thou condemnest thyself; for thou that judgest doeth the same things. But we are sure that the judgment of God is according to truth against them which commit such things."
It has been said that when you point a finger at someone else, you are pointing 3 at yourself.
Above all, keep the lines of communication open between yourself and your daughter. She is living in darkness and needs you to guide her into the light. She needs to know that she can trust you so that she will open up to you about how she is feeling and then once the truth comes out, you can help her pinpoint what the real problem is and you can help her solve it. God says that he did not create anyone as homosexual and God does not lie, so have faith in God's word and tell your daughter that you are sure that there is no such thing as homosexuals. That is deception and it does not really exist.
Romans 2:26 says- "For this cause God gave them up to vile affections: for even the women did change the natural use into that which is against nature."
Homosexuality is agains nature. Ephesians 4:14 says- "That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried out with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to decieve."
Homosexuality is a deception and a doctrine that people who are weak in faith are decieved by and tossed about to and fro.
Proverbs 14:12 says- "There is a way that seemeth right unto a man; but the end thereof are the ways of death."
Look up sites on the Internet of Former homosexuals and show them to your daughter. These people tell their stories and want to help others not go the way they went.
Ecclesiastes 7:5 says- "it is better to hear the rebuke of the wise, than for a man to hear the song of fools."
Psalm 73:3, 18-19 SAYS- "For I was envious at the foolish, when I saw the prosperity of the wicked....Surely thou didst set them in slippery places: thou casteth them down into destruction.How are thye brought into desolation, as in a moment! they are utterly consumed with terrors."
So many homosexuals tell this story. At first homosexuality seems to be the answer, but one day they wake up and find that they have thrown away so much.
Whatever you do, don't condemn her - ripping out the bible verses at how wrong it is might not get you very far. 
Hi I also will pray hard for you and daughter !
