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whatdoido2

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Well we have had a few days together after the fight and things have been very good. He has offered to drive me to see my son (2.5 hrs away). He doesn't want me going alone because he doesn't trust my ex.

But I see that he's really trying, as am I. I have had a lot of male friends and when someone randomly texts me and calls me "sweetie" it sets him off.

The thing that I am still unsure of... I went to unwrap presents with my son and his dad. His dad set me up by then telling me in front of son that he made me Christmas dinner. I said I couldn't stay and he told me that it would be ruining Xmas if I didnt. So of course som starts crying. So I stayed for aboit 5 min. But my BF was angry because at this point it had been about an hour and he was texting wondering what was going on.

I left. But he felt that I should not be eating dinner alone there with them. That it would be confusing to son and that since we are in serious relationship it is disrespectful.

What do you make of that?
 
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