Please help me to do the right thing, I am confused here.
I am the firstborn of four siblings, my mother is now widowed and this happened in 2005 December. What caused the death of my step father is suicide, after a very bad fight with his wife and it was intended to kill all of them but by God's grace I still have my mother. The problem is this, this lady cheated on her husband and I witnessed it.
Now the real problem is this, she is still bringing men into our home, and these relationships do not last long. She keep changing men even if she have multiple casuals contacts with other men. The fact that she is doing this in our sight really depress me. She drinks a lot and come home to insult us and talk very bad things to all of us. Now my siblings are on the loose, they have no respect and are going wild.
The other thing is, all this depressed me in 2006 untill now and I was hospitalised and it caused me to fail my first year at university. I had to drop my studies and stay home. Now, she complains a lot. She puts all the care of her house and kids on me saying I must study and take care of therm. She complains of everything and even telling me to go to university and graduate so that I buy for her a house and car. She is even deciding that I go and study engineering while I want to study computers.
I am now thinking of going away from my home, to rent. But she accuse me to be responsible of her HBP levels. I am also afraid that my siblings will go completly astray. But I seing these men going into our house and it drives me insane. Please help.
I am the firstborn of four siblings, my mother is now widowed and this happened in 2005 December. What caused the death of my step father is suicide, after a very bad fight with his wife and it was intended to kill all of them but by God's grace I still have my mother. The problem is this, this lady cheated on her husband and I witnessed it.
Now the real problem is this, she is still bringing men into our home, and these relationships do not last long. She keep changing men even if she have multiple casuals contacts with other men. The fact that she is doing this in our sight really depress me. She drinks a lot and come home to insult us and talk very bad things to all of us. Now my siblings are on the loose, they have no respect and are going wild.
The other thing is, all this depressed me in 2006 untill now and I was hospitalised and it caused me to fail my first year at university. I had to drop my studies and stay home. Now, she complains a lot. She puts all the care of her house and kids on me saying I must study and take care of therm. She complains of everything and even telling me to go to university and graduate so that I buy for her a house and car. She is even deciding that I go and study engineering while I want to study computers.
I am now thinking of going away from my home, to rent. But she accuse me to be responsible of her HBP levels. I am also afraid that my siblings will go completly astray. But I seing these men going into our house and it drives me insane. Please help.
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