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jon1

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I have just moved into a flat, in a city i don't know after my marriage has broken down.
The last 8 yrs my wife has been a minister and we led different lives for the last 6or7 yrs due to the commitments she has.
I am trying to be posative by trying to get voluntry work and getting out to meet people but its just not working.
I can't bear the lonliness any more, i miss my 2 dogs and my heart is breaking for company. I am trying to type this through the tears that i am shedding at the moment.
I have a healing ministry through Jesus and i truly believe he knows the desperate position i am now in. I keep praying, but to no avail.
Could you please pray that Jesus will come into my situation before i do something silly.

Many thanks. Its good to know that christians do care for each other but sometimes we are so far apart.

John..
 

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Dear Jon - God bless you! My heart goes out to you; in your loneliness, your fear, your pain, your heartbreak. I pray that the Holy Spirit, the Great Comforter will make His presence known to you...as He is always with you. Do not despair, there is always HOPE, there is always comfort in our Lord. You can overcome with our God in your heart. I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts. God bless!
 
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jon1

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Many thanks for your replies.
It has been three months now since my separation from my wife and i am now going to see a counciller. I just hope that my life will turn around for the better soon.
Mind you, just one week after making this thread, i found out that i have cancer again.
Needless to say, my faith has been streached to the limit and i have not been to church for two months.
I don't know what to think anymore. Life is certainly a challenge isn't it?
 
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