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This is my story(the questions will come at the end):I grew up in a christian family going to church and everything,then in about fourth grade i accepted Him as my savior and was baptized on that same day,then about last summer my family stopped going to church (due to laziness) and i stopped thinking about God,this summer i got worried about my relationship with Him and started thinking about where i would be after i die.That then lit the fire inside of me to want to know Him again.Now i know him but have a couple of questions:
#1 Since i was baptized ealier in my life will i need to be baptized again?
#2during the events of me not knowing Him , is that the term called "backsliding"? :help:
 

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Will you need to baptised again? In my opinion, no. To me, baptism is more of a demonstration of faith. We are baptised in the Holy Spirit, thus making it as if we were baptised every day. I've been baptised in water, but I don't think it is necessary in order to have a deep relationship with our Lord and Savior.

And, I'm not really sure about the term Backsliding. I've never really heard it used before, so I'm rather unfamiliar with it. Sorry on that note.

God bless
 
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#1 Since i was baptized ealier in my life will i need to be baptized again?
The Baptism of Water is our show of faith in our Lord Jesus Christ, so why not get baptised again. I would!
#2during the events of me not knowing Him , is that the term called "backsliding"?
Yep, you backslid. Now it would be great to rededicte your life to our Lord Jesus Christ, and get back on track with HIM.
 
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with Elijah2 (again).

It would not hurt to be baptized again since this time it will mean something more then the first time. but it could be a sign of rededication of life to Lord. I would discuss that with your pastor.
But it is not necessary for salvation or even to do again.

Backsliding is not a term used in New Testament, but was used in Old Testament concerning Israel when they stopped worshipping the one true God and reverted to idolatrous ways.

Lots of people would define a Christian's backsliding in different ways. Here is one way.

What Do We Mean By "Backsliding"?

"The Lord became angry with Solomon because his heart had turned from the Lord God of Israel" - 1 Kings 11:9
"I have this against you; you have left your first love." - Revelation 2:4

Backsliding is when a person who follows Christ turns away from Him. To the backslider, God is no longer the main focus of his life. Without God's leading, the person suffers a lapse morally and reverts back to sin. He "backslides" into his old way of life.

I think it's possible for a Christian to backslide to the point where other believers would doubt the salvation of the "backslider", but I also believe that if the person was truely a believer that God would eventually intervene to help bring the backslider back to following or take the backslider home per, Hebrews 12:
5 And ye have forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him:
6 For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.
7 If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?
8 But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons.

To me, backsliding is not denying Christ, but more an ignoring Christ. It's a dangerous situation, but God is merciful and may allow years of walking away from the Lord before intervening.

I also think, that when a "professed" believer(not truely saved) totally abandons the Christian faith and God does not eventually chasten that person, then it is reasonable for believers to suspect that person was never truely saved, even if there was a profession and even if there was a baptism.

I for one, experienced Hebrews 12, to my shame today. But it came after years of walking away from the Lord, yet I never denied my faith only ignored.

DECISION DETERMINES DESTINY
 
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If you remember your baptism and know in your heart that you were saved at the time, I would not get baptised again. I was baptised as an infant and then again as a believer (adult). But it sounds like you have been a child of God since that day in fourth grade because God, through the Holy Spirit, is drawing you back to Himself. Rejoice, you are a child of the Most High God!

Now tell your parents you want to start living for Christ again and confess, repent and accept the Lord's forgiveness. :amen:
 
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