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Tsaxgurl317

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if feels like there is a fence seperating me from God, and on the other side is how I used to live my life and on the side i'm on its stuff that makes my life pleasureable for now but i know it won't last, and I want to come back to God but I don't want to have to change my whole lifestyle up, but in order for me to come to God i have to.......pretty much it is, I want to serve God without putting fort all the work and I can't do both because if i remember correctly the bible says you can only serve one master but i'm unsure because its been so long sense i read it
 

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Hey girlie,
Well I know that the best thing that I can do for you right now is pray so you are in my prayers, but I will try to help you out. You see there is a fence in each of our lives. We decide which side of the fence we will make our mark. On one side there is God...And everything he has to offer, but it is not easy. Then there is the other side, which is the world, and it is much easier. But what we want is to straddle the fence and enjoy the best of both worlds. But God says he either wants us hot or cold, not lukewarm. Things are black and white there is no grey in the choices we make. Changing your whole life is not easy to do, but if it is what you must do, God will help you make the sacrifices. I think one thing that we do is try to fix and cahnge everything at once, but do it slowly and it will last longer. Make true commitments and you will have a hard time backing down. I hope this has helped.

A God Chaser,
Jess
 
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Tsaxgurl: Do you have any friends that are also Christians? What my church encourages for things like this is to find one person that you trust and can hold you up, and have them call you weekly to check up on you to check up on you and ask you questions to see how you're doing.

I'll be praying for you.
 
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This is the part where "You can't do anything on your own strength, but through the strength of Christ you can do anything." come in to our lives directly.

Your struggle is what life and Christ is about. You make look upon this as just a little thing when in fact its essential to your existence. Prayer is the place to start. Looking for Christian support is second..........
 
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"You can't do anything on your own strength, but through the strength of Christ you can do anything."
Amen. But, there are things that will help and relaly I think are a necessity to be walking with the LORD. Are you reading the Word and seeking for the Holy Spirit to teach you? Are you praying and asking God to work in yoy? So many people don't spend time alone with the LORD and if you do start spending time alone with the LORD, he will start working in you more and more! Praise God!
 
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I will pray for you! :pray:

Computer games were something that was keeping me from God but they are things that I have grown up on. It was very hard to give them up, but in return God has blessed me in other ways.

What you give up for God, He will replace with other good things.
 
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