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Please help, things are so bad now

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Toney

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The Lord hears you cry for help, Calmius and He will not abandon you. I lift you up to our Lord and ask him to grant you the peace which passes all understanding so you may discern what He is asking of you. And I pray for your father. Amen.
 
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If there's one message that you get, I hope it is this: Take advantage of the college so that you will never be in this desperate position again. Acquire the skills you need to help yourself and hopefully your family. Don't lose yourself in the moment. Lose yourself in your future.

Lord, please herd this lamb on to better greener pastures. Please look over this family, and support their needs. Please send Your strength to this student in need.
 
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Father, take control of this situation and help everyone involved get the things they really need. Give peace to the anxiety-ridden, sobriety to the drunk, sustenance to the poor and a life of increased faith because you will have helped them through it. Lord, whatever is the source of the pain that causes the drunkness, heal it. And the anxiety that the family has had to live with all these years, soothe it permanently by replacing it with unfathomable faith in you. And please make it easier for the mother to comfort the son. Through the authority that Christ gave us to boldly go into the throne room and make our supplications known, Amen.
 
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:pray: Praying. :pray: Hold tightly to your faith! If things get too overwhelming, find someone you can trust to talk to../church? school counselor...? May God give you patience, comfort, and continued strength. Be strong, you are not alone! Pray, focus on your school work, and be good to yourself!!! :hug:
PS (try to stay out of Dad's way when he drinks, and pray for him ,too).
 
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Father, I pray you take control of this situation and help everyone involved get the things they really need. Give to this family peace , and help the father to resolve his drunk,and turn to you .Sustenance to the poor and give a life to those whom need you the most. Increased faith in their lives, and love in their hearts. Because you are the only one that can help. Help them through their diffucult times Lord. And Lord, For whatever is the reason of the pain that causes the father's drunkness, heal it, revoke it from this Father in Jesus' Name O Pray. And the anxiety that the family has endured with all these years,remove it permanently by replacing it with your love , through spiritual friends whom uplift the family and whom has the ability through you Father to help them. The love of faith in you, is all that we can count on. And please make it easier for the mother to to get in touch with her son. Through the authority that Christ has given us, to go into prayer. Make our supplications known, and the love we have from you Lord shown, as we walk this jorney of alife time! In Jesus Name I ask all of this!!!!! Amen
 
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Just to let you know dear one you're not alone in this.

Hang onto your hope in Jesus. He will never leave you or forsake you. He knows what you're going through and will strengthen and uphold you.

I pray for your dad to let go of the drinking and that he finds peace and comfort and all his needs met in Jesus. That you are able to do your studies and find a haven at home to peacefully learn. That you will not feel despair but the love and grace of God in this situation.
Nothing is too hard for Him; He already has a plan and will change things. Keep praying for your dad and posting here.

Get support from your College/Counsellor/Tutors etc they are there to help. Don't let your work suffer due to lack of support - you deserve help.

Praying for you - :hug:
Gentle-Heart
 
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