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let me take a deep breath...ok

I need some advice, prayers, help words from the Bible, anything will work.

Ok so I moved away from San Antonio Texas about a year ago, with I left two of the best friends I've ever had, my band and my unofficial boyfriend

Anyway alot of things have happened inbetween then and now that I think have caused this.

For the last 3 months I've really been questioning my sexuality
weather I'm a lesbain or not. I'm so confused and scared!!!!I don't know whats wrong with me! I was never like this before! I never even really had any friends who were girls, all my friends were guys, so why would this just suddenly start, I mean I'll tell myself I'm gonna beat it, and I won't have a thought about for like 2 days, and then I'll see something on tv or some girl in a magiazine who I don't think is heidus it just really gets to me.

It feels so wrong, please can someone tell me what to do! I've been praying for guidance and help, and peace asking God what I'm supossed to do and Nothing is working, please help me, give me advice, something, I feel so lost and helpless. Everyone says "repent, repent!", I don't even know what they mean by repent much less how to do it!
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LORD,
We ask You to be with Skatergirl, fill her with thy HOLY SPIRIT and give her direction and strength as she struggles with her inner conflicts. Lead her in thy righteous ways Open her eyes to thy WORD and help her to overcome these doubts.
In JESUS we pray
 
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Repent means to Turn away...also you must know this is a fleshly desire, unnatural affection..thier could be many reasons for your lust..but you'r not alone..the world is embracing and encouraging women to be bisexual..
Read the word...seak counseling, and most all ask for Gods victory..
heres a prayer for you...
Dear Heavenly Father,
I pray for this young girl for the truth about what is right way to live for you, and to have victory over carnal tempatations and emotions. Lord, please have your love and mercy on her..
Amen.
 
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Don't listen to the Devil, He's got you so confused with the mixed messages that society sends. Don't listen one minute. And don't despair one minute either, you have a powerful champion in Jesus.

It is normal for people to compare themselves to others of their sex. Women and men are wonderfuly wrought creations. Yes they both are beautiful. At your age, if the 12 is accurate, it is normal to wonder about your body. I have even seen younger girls than you with a similar confusion. Don't get what is what is meant for you from what is attractive in a purely looks sense.

repent means to turn away from that path that you are on. Only advice I can give you on that is to pray that God will turn you away from your sin. I know He will. Ain't nothing in yourself that can overcome sin. Only Jesus can do that. I know you keep failing, but that is nothing to be troubled about. God is there for you, to pick you up and dust off the stain. YOU WILL OVERCOME, or rather you and God will overcome. Trust me on this. It will be right as rain in about 2 months.
 
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