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Platonic bed sharing while married.

Forest Wolf

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I don't know, having to travel to a business meeting with female coworkers but the company purchased rooms with the idea of having 2 people per bed, and there are an uneven number of men?

That would be a company with questionable judgment.
 
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Either I didn't word myself correctly or some people are not reading this thread properly so I will repeat the situation. I dont need to ask my wife permission, it was already granted before we married. Although my wife has always allowed me to share a bed with my GF I have no reason to, and I choose not to share a bed with my GF out of respect to her husband.
This is not just any girl. She is special to me and my wife understands this. My relationship with my platonic girlfriend was well established for years before I met my wife, my wife accepted my GF as part of my life and has always tried to accommadate her in to our lives as much as she can. My wife has a good honest relationship with her and trusts her completely and I believe the platonic bed sharing in the early years helped reinforce this trust. I havent shared a bed with my GF in many many years and do not desire to share a bed with her in future. I have known her husband longer than she has and we are also very close friends. Her husband has never stopped us spending time together when we want it and he has at times insisted she visit me without him coming along too. She is planning to visit me later this year and our spouses are paying for her airfare. If my wife gave me permission to share a bed overnight with some other woman I wouldn't do it.

This thread keeps getting weirder and weirder.
 
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I am actually quite submissive and let the guy pretty run things. I don't have whips just psu power cords and I guess those can whip but I don't want to hurt anyone but I have been cheated on a lot.
I...but...you...umm...wut?:confused:
 
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