In some ways that's true. In other ways it's not.
I think agreeing that "interaction" is not exclusive to "physical" is an important step.
Let me rephrase this so we don't start getting lost in the words:
"I think agreeing that "interaction" is not exclusive to
"that which has mass" is an important step."
With regards to semantics, you are correct in that (beyond what I said above) all this probably accomplishes is to provide us an analogy. I don't know how useful that is, but we can now revisit my question: Is a candle physical?
Again, to rephrase:
Is a candle "that which has mass?" Yes.
And, I'll make one modification. Is a burning candle physical? Based on the definition, it is no longer wholly physical. A transformation is taking place where the wax and wick (physical) are becoming light (non-physical).
Is a burning candle "that which has mass?" Yes.
However, a burning candle emits "that which doesn't have mass," light.
Let's make it even more interesting. Let's put the candle in a dark room, where the only light is the light of the candle. And, let's put the candle in front of a mirror.
So, how do you sense the physical wax and wick? Does seeing it (via light - via a non-physical medium) count as sensing a physical object? You can sense it as physical - by the heat, by touch. But what of the sense of sight? Are you sensing an "image" of the physical, or the physical itself?
With or without a mirror, when we see a candle, we're only using "that which has no mass" to detect it, unless we touch it. We're using light. The light in the mirror is merely reflected from the candle. So, it's the same light. There's no difference by simply using a mirror. And simply looking at an object directly, doesn't make it sensing "the "that which has mass" itself." We're still only sensing light, which has no mass.
And what of the reflection in the mirror? There are intriguing layers here. The physical is producing non-physical light which creates a reflection in a mirror. The reflection originated with the candle. And it is an excellent representation of a burning candle - every twitch of the flame is mirrored exactly.
That which has mass is producing that which has no mass. Right. And the representation is pretty accurate because whether we use a mirror or not, we're looking at the same light.
The reflection is real. It is light reflected from a physical surface.
Right. Light is real.
And even if we couldn't see the physical candle, we could determine with reasonable confidence that the reflection is an image of a candle, something that originated from a physical candle.
But we are seeing the candle. Same light from the same candle.
So what is this real thing to be called? It's not a candle. It's a reflection of a candle ... a very succinct description of a very particular manifestation of non-physical light.
Reflection of a candle is what we would call light reflecting off a candle. Right.
While it is not physical, it is not really abstract either.
No one said "that which has no mass" is necessarily abstract. So, I agree with you here, as well.
It is not a mere physical brain state.
It is not a mere brain state "which has mass." I'm not really sure what this means. "Mere?"
It is not mere light, because it has a very particular origin.
It isn't "mere light" because it has an origin? So, the light we see reflected off a mirror coming from a candle isn't "mere light?" All light has an origin. All light, then, is not "mere light??"
I have to admit I don't see how any of this has any relevance with the amount of mass light has or doesn't have.
Let me recap what I've understood, so far:
Physical is that which has no mass. Light has no mass. Candles can emit light. Mirrors can reflect light. Light is what we sense with our brains. If light reflects from a mirror, then it doesn't simply exist in our brains. Light isn't mere light when it comes from something...
I'm not sure what I was supposed to get from this, to be honest.