Physical intimacy

[soccerstud7]

I want to say hi to everyone.

I have been engaged to my fiancee for almost 3 months now and our wedding is in September.

Right now I am having issues with my thoughts and actions on a physical level. It is very frustrating because of past experiences. I pray about this a lot and communicate things to her, but I can't seem to tackle it. I just really need prayer and encouragement right now and any advice would be great.

 

[Arclight610]

You have been prayed for. I hope you remain strong and everything goes well. May God bless you.

 

[Inperfected]

I'm praying for you!

I do understand as I've been engaged almost a year (and what dates your wedding?) and my weddings also september.

Tip that i am using, is pray together... It helps bring god into it all, and it quelches the action of "doing" something togheter.

 

[soccerstud7]

Thanks for prayer. It's such a blessing to know others are praying and lifting me and my fiancee up. Our wedding is september 30th. I am so excited! Even though there is still a lot to get done, we have been very productive and are getting much acomplished.

 

[Inperfected]

Well done! thats awesome, mines 2 weekends before your's ... 16th!

 

[MandiMarie]

Although I'm not officially engaged or anything (just dating with the goal of marriage at some point), I know what you mean. My boyfriends has been struggling with the same thing. We decided that we were not going to kiss at all until our wedding day. It is extremely hard but it will be worth it .

 

[Amy47]

Trust me you're not the only one that struggles with that. My bf and I have less then a year to go and it seems like an eternity away. But we can do all things through christ! God bless you and your finace.

 

[soccerstud7]

Thanks again to everyone for your encouragement. God is amazing and has brought me through so much in my life, I know He will provide my fiancee and I the strength we need and bless our relationship with Him as the foundation.

 

[abacoian]

September 15th for me I know we will be ok until then but it is still not always easy for me, I am 30 and haved saved myself for marriage but please keep me in your prayers as well. Thank you

 

[Wandering Cat Lady]

I will keep you in my prayers. My wedding is the 8th of September and trust me, it's hard for both of us. But God has given us the strength to say absolutely NO to anything impure, with the promise that what comes after marriage is so much better, so much more intimate, because we waited. We make sure that we talk about how we're feeling, and we're not afraid to show some physical intimacy, i.e. hugs, kisses, little touches, but nothing inappropriate. God bless you and he will give you the strength to make it

 

[Weasel7711]

Well done! thats awesome, mines 2 weekends before your's ... 16th!

you are getting married in sept... but your status says you are married...

im confused...

 

[MrsSeptemberPenguin]

you are getting married in sept... but your status says you are married...

im confused...

Look at the years on the thread, a lot of them are already married now. Lol

 

[Weasel7711]

Look at the years on the thread, a lot of them are already married now. Lol

so it is....

touche....

 

[Nobility]

Yes it is! I've found people have been confused in quite a few threads in there so far about 'when I'm getting married'.

The OP is well and truely married now also!