So what is the trip up point that throws the "relativistic mass of a photon" into philosophy and not an easy question to answer ?
'The mass' of the photon is ambiguous.
If you mean the rest mass, it's zero.
If you mean the relativistic mass, it's nonzero.
So maybe it's just a matter of definitions. When you ask about what the mass of the photon is, which mass do you mean, the rest mass or the relativistic mass?
Quoting what you said earlier: "If a photon were to have
actual mass in
the way we think of "mass""
There's no 'actual mass'. I don't know what way 'we think' of mass.
We have a rest mass and a relativistic mass.
If you ask me 'which one is the actual mass?' I don't have an answer for you. It's whichever one you want to
define as the actual mass, I guess.
'But I don't want to define the actual mass, I want to know which one is
reaallllly the mass?'
I can't answer that, because if I can't
define one of them to be 'real', then I will have to defer to the philosophers to tell us what
Reality is so they can decide which is really the mass.
Again, since the rest mass is invariant, and actually tells us something interesting about the particle, whether it's a photon or a neutron, the rest mass would appear to be
a more fundamental description of the mass. That makes it zero.
But maybe 'the way we think about mass' is that you put your tomatoes on a scale and measure their weight, which is directly related to mass. When you try to put a photon on a scale, they keep flying away at the speed of light, but imagine....
We build a box with perfect mirrors coating the inside. We put it on a super-duper sensitive scale. We turn out the lights so we know there are no photons inside the box. Close it. And weigh it. Then we open the box and shine a flashlight inside and close the box again before the photons bounce out. Now there's a bunch of photons bouncing around inside the box. If we weigh the box again,
it will weigh just a tiny bit more, because there's more energy inside. The only thing we added to the box was photons, so they must weigh something, right? That would mean they have mass.
Both answers are meaningful, and I don't see any way to select one as being the 'real' answer. The rest mass is a more fundamental and invariant property, and that's why physicists usually mean this when they say 'the mass' of any given particle. But maybe the relativistic mass may be closer to what we naively(?) think of as mass. Gravity only affects things that have mass. Photons are affected by gravity. Ergo, photons have mass.
Massless supporter: No no no. Gravity only affects things that have
relativistic mass. That's just the same as energy. Clearly a non-naive way to think of gravity is that gravity only acts on things with energy. And photons have energy, so that's fine. But photons don't have mass.
Mass supporter: No no no. Photons don't have
rest mass. But they do have relativistic mass.
Massless supporter: Of course, I agree with you.
Mass supporter: Well when I say mass, I mean relativistic mass.
Massless supporter: Well when *I* say mass, I mean rest mass.
Mass supporter: So photons have nonzero mass.
Massless supporter: No, they don't have any mass.
Mass supporter: But we just agreed that photons don't have rest mass.
But they do have relativistic mass.
Massless supporter: Yes, we agreed that photons do have relativistic mass.
But they don't have rest mass.
Confused observer: But which one is the real mass?
Mass supporter: Based on my definition, it's the relativistic mass.
Massless supporter: Based on my definition, it's the rest mass.
In reality, an 'argument' like this doesn't occur, because as long as everyone is clear about the terminology, there are no disagreements in the predictions and equations. There is no need to decide which one is 'real'. That's for the philosophers.