personal info online

[exitstageright]

I have neither thought nor implied any such thing. You have been married twice so that shows that you have no problem attracting women. I was simply stating that if you really CARED about this woman, you wouldn't be putting her at risk by making so much information about her public...especially considering her line of work. I was simply pointing out how much information you made public for any John, Richard (it won't let me type the nickname), or Mary to see in your exuberance to show her off. However, maybe she doesn't do direct client care so maybe it isn't a big issue. I would think that people that worked with psychiatric clients...especially in a outpatient setting would be at greater risk than nurses even.

In fact a number of years ago, I gave you a lot of advice for how to attract the ladies. Mostly of it, you just argued why I was wrong so I stopped. I do comment when you say things that counter other things YOU have told us...."poor you who can never attract a woman" has been married twice (and you initiated both divorces if I remember correctly) so that statement can't be true.... Since you live by "logic", I'd assume that you appreciate when I point out things that are not logical.

I was simply sincerely concerned with the woman's safety...something you appear to not care about. I searched to see if I could find her based on the info you posted before I said anything and I could find her and a lot of info about her. And that that was only with a 10 minute max search...I didn't use anything more than google.

Why on earth would I care if you found a beautiful woman or not? I don't know you beyond the board and your relationship status doesn't affect me in the slightest. So there is no reason to "get jealous"...and trust me, I am not.

Why on earth would you be trying to prove to us or anyone else that "you can be successful"? If you have met your goals and are happy with your life, WHO CARES what anyone else thinks. You are successful. Why do you even care what I think? You sound like you have made a decent life for yourself and I have never challenged that. It is you who comes and posts about "why can't I be successful" type of posts. You get angry when I point out your unwillingness to relocate to find love when you find someone who lives somewhere else in the US, or when you refuse to date outside of a tight parameter of appearance requirements or financial status requirements, or even your unwillingness to own your part in your failed marriages. I am not challenging your 'success' but rather suggesting that maybe it is YOU who is limiting your success.

 

[exitstageright]

Yes,the nickname for "Richard" was why you got the "bless and do not curse" message.Yes,I do take responsibility for my failed marriages. As,they say in the U.S. Navy,"I mucked up".

By the way, I am not angry now. We all want to know what people think of us. Even Jesus asked,"Who do people say I am?" And,he also asked,"Who do you say I am?" Are not many of us curious what other people think of us.?
I do,because I try to communicate with people so they will not misunderstand me,Or worse yet,think I want to harm them,when I mean them no harm.

 

[Tom Mix]

Everybody I know knows where I live so I am not worried.

My problem is my stalker goes to my work and starts bad publicity for me and the computer has nothing to do with it.

 

[Catherineanne]

I have done that,search my own name. About a couple of years ago,I searched my own name. One website had me listed as married. I was single then and I am single now. I have read that some people,after the first date ,google their date. If they read that I was married,then it is no wonder I could not get a second date that year.

That would explain it, yes. I hope you put it right.