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Pathologizing Masculinity

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You know, I've never yet had a woman get offended when I opened a door for her. Maybe someday. And my reply will be: "sorry, this is how I was brought up, and I'm kinda old to change now."

A few years ago, I took Mrs. Barbarian to a trendy restaurant. A 20-something lady with lots of piercings and tattoos showed us to our table. I helped Mrs. B with her coat and pulled out the chair for her.

The lady made a little "ooh" sound and smiled at me.

So maybe it's still safe to be a gentleman.
 
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Thank you for your response, Paidiske. I am sorry that you have faced discrimination in your professional life. I hope there is some way that it can and will be addressed at some point.

Thanks, I appreciate that. Now that I've left the secular world for the church, of course, a whole different set of issues presents itself. I'm fortunate that in my parish my sex is not an issue. Beyond that, though... equality is a work in progress.

But I have to remind myself that the progress is real. My diocese's only been ordaining women as priests since 1992. That's very recent, in church terms!
 
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Yes the prioritisation of psychological sexual identity over Physical identity is an idolatrous delusion and ideologically motivated. The disconnect with reality is having mental health implications for both sexes and is contributing to a dissolution of families and the social fabric of Western culture.
 
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Well, perhaps "most" was inaccurate. "Many" would be a more appropriate statement. I will edit the post for you.

If we look at times not-so-far-past, "most" is appropriate.

In the pre-industrial ages, a father or grandfather was in a boy's life most of the day, whether on the farm or in the city. Even stretching into the industrial age, a boy often went to work with his father in the factory.

It was relatively rare than a boy was not in the presence of men of his family or, at least, men. And that was true of most boys until fairly recently in society.
 
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