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This is an odd one (or maybe it's not). Ever since I was at least 7 yr's old I knew my parents had sex. Not just knowing, but hearing. At first I was afraid. Then through the teen years I thought I might as well take care of my own business since they were taking care of theirs (mind you, I was not getting aroused by them, I did it to past the time). Now it's just annoying. I love my parents very much, but they seem to do it when ever the mood is there. It's very impolite (not that they never heard me, hoping not). Didn't know if anyone else had similar issues, and whether not you said anything about it? I'm screwed up as it is sexually, and this doesn't help.
 

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First of all, be thankful that your parents are having sex (in everything give thanks). Many parents don't and then it is really hard on everyone else.

Secondly, try to soundproof your room. Put clothing/closets on the side of the room next to your parents' room. Put a rug on the wall.

Third, turn up the music or tv in your room.

Fourthly, pray. Pray for an escape from the situation (aren't you going to be leaving home soon?). Pray that the situation will stop somehow. God can change the heart of your parents quite easily. Maybe they will all of a sudden want to move into another place or have their bedroom in a basement or on a rooftop.

Fifthly, remember that we all reap what we sow. If your parents are sowing to exhibitionism or something sinful, they will be punished.

Pray, read the Bible, praise God, ask for a release from the situation - God will answer in His way.
 
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