Paranoia

[lostaquarium]

Are you worried about people you know in real life coming onto CF and reading all your posts?? I am. I spill my guts on here, and I don't care about you guys judging me, so I haven't really represented myself very well. Posted about a lot of embarassing stuff in retrospect.

One of my friends just walked in and looked at my screen for a while before I realised. He's not the type to spy on someone online, but I'm afraid because now he has the potential to.

What do I do?

 

[Rhye]

No, honestly. I say things here I say in real life.
Maybe, except for work...ooo oh!


I LOVE MY JOB!

 

[lostaquarium]

I love my job too! And everyone I've ever met in real life! I also love my ex-roommate and all my colleagues and teachers!

 

[Keri]

Are you worried about people you know in real life coming onto CF and reading all your posts?? I am. I spill my guts on here, and I don't care about you guys judging me, so I haven't really represented myself very well. Posted about a lot of embarassing stuff in retrospect.

One of my friends just walked in and looked at my screen for a while before I realised. He's not the type to spy on someone online, but I'm afraid because now he has the potential to.

What do I do?

Honestly the opinions of others do not matter to me. I am proud to be who I am. Which also leads to the fact that who I am online, is who I am in real life. There's nothing I would post here that I wouldn't tell people in RL.

 

[Rhye]

I love my job too! And everyone I've ever met in real life! I also love my ex-roommate and all my colleagues and teachers!

THEY ARE AMAZZINNNGG!!

But, seriously, I truly, truly love my job with a passion. Those kids, are the best thing that God ever gave me.

 

[lostaquarium]

THEY ARE AMAZZINNNGG!!

 

[lostaquarium]

Seriously panicking now.

 

[lostaquarium]

This is like somebody being able to read my diary.
I'm such a bad person.
If I was a good person and posted about good things, I wouldn't be so worried right now.

 

[lostaquarium]

Gosh, I can search through all my posts even though I thought I disabled that option.

Can anyone else search through all my posts??

 

[Inkachu]

I don't spill my guts here, and I don't really have any offline friends who would want to know my business, so no, I don't have that worry. I have written some VERY personal posts on CF (in other sections) but there's really no way someone would know how to find them, since I have my post search feature disabled.

 

[Inkachu]

Honestly, I'd be more concerned with knowing someone who was that nosy and disrespectful, to come here snooping around for my business. I'd drop them out of my life.

 

[Rhye]

Seriously panicking now.

For what? Its okay!

People do worse things and get away with it. Life is life. We say things, we don't mean somethings, and we say things that are truth.




I do sometimes, wish, I could be more honest.

 

[Revived]

I'll tell a total stranger my life story. I've found it to be perhaps the most liberating process in my life. Suppressing our feelings and living two lives (so to speak) is recipe for stress and misery.

 

[lostaquarium]

Can someone please try and see if you can search for my posts?

 

[ceh85]

I just tried, I can see all the posts you've made. I wouldn't worry too much about it. CF is a massive site, someone would have to really search to find the right section. Anyway I don't remember you saying anything particularly bad.

 

[Rhye]

Can someone please try and see if you can search for my posts?

I tried to find a post someone made the other day to prove them wrong and I couldn't.

 

[Revived]

Can someone please try and see if you can search for my posts?

If you're that concerned, maybe you could change your nick? FYI (if you're not aware) someone would have to register to see your profile ... guests cannot see them.

 

[lostaquarium]

OK. I'll just have to post about really godly things from now on, to make up for it.

 

[lostaquarium]

If you're that concerned, maybe you could change your nick? FYI (if you're not aware) someone would have to register to see your profile ... guests cannot see them.

Ooh, that's good to know. Thanks!

 

[Revived]

The Disable 'Find All Posts' feature isn't working. I'll let someone know.