I would agree with that quatona.
But, in sense, let's see a scribble enscribed on the rock.
It is a word.
But neither you nor I can speak nor understand it, it is just a scribble, even though we do not recognise what that scribble is.
The word in itself can exist- but it is meaningless.
We apply meaning to it.
Meaning is an internally derived concept.
Yes, so far that´s what we have been in agreement upon all the time, I think.
Hence, when language is used in a way that the internally derived meanings conflict with one another, it becomes paradoxical.
Yes.
In this sense, it shows that the words themselves are not creating the paradox- it is our concept of meaning that is doing that.
Yes. Since we are the ones who give meaning to everything anyways, I would have thunk that this went without mentioning.
And that words don´t create meaning should be as obvious as that rocks don´t create any meaning.
The words in themselves are meaningless,
...just like everything else...
and can exist in any state they like- in a sense- they are not real.
Since we seem to agree in that meaninglessness is not an exclusive property to words but literally everything, it seems to be this last statement that actually contains the point you are trying to make.
So let´s look at this statement closer, ok?
I´m sorry for trying to be precise, and it might come across as nitpicking, but I´m just trying to understand, because I often find your reasoning a bit unstructured and want to get it sorted so I understand it.
So far we have three different statements from you about the properties or non-properties of words:
1.
they are inherently meaningless (as we seem to agree, this is not even worth mentioning, because nothing is inherently meaningful. That´s why your thread title and OP appear to be misleading, because this can´t be the point you are trying to make).
2.
they have no physical property. Agreed upon, and I have never seen that questioned, so I guess that isn´t your point either.
3.
they are not real.
This, unfortunately is a word that really

needs to be defined so that everyone knows what you are talking about. There are too many concepts of "reality" out there, as that we could simply assume we mean the same when saying it. Else chances are that we will paint an Escher-building.
According to your above reasoning the landmark (or one of the landmarks) for things being not real is that they can "appear in any state they like". Now, this is a sloppy wording to begin with, no? Words and things in general don´t like anything, so what you probably mean is that they can appear in any form
we like. But how does that say anything but "we are the ones that give words meaning", which is the same as #1 (and not being an exclusive property of words but literally everything)?
In a sense, if we were to use language to create a building-
the words would be Esher's impossible drawing on the page- and the building that could never exist would be the meanings and concepts we apply to the words.
And this, excuse me for being blunt, is a gross misconclusion, a non-sequitur. The fundament of an Escher-building, to stay in the picture.

It is not disputed that we can use the property of words of being subject to our meaning-giving in a way that creates paradoxes.
It is also not disputed that all paradoxes are generated by improper use of language, e.g. by false equivocation and other logical fallacies. This can be done with language, and it is often - intentionally or inadvertantly - done.
But how does that show that words necessarily build "impossible drawings"? Indeed they
can build "impossible drawings", but - if properly used - build "possible drawings". Just like the fact that you can paint impossible things doesn´t mean that all things painted are impossible.
Furthermore, whenever language is used improperly, it can be analyzed and demonstrated by which means the fallacy has been induced. Just like you can analyze and demonstrate how Escher managed to paint an impossible building.
Often it already begins with bricks (words) that have no substance (concept attached to them). It can, e.g., be easily shown that many people who talk about "eternity" don´t hold a concept that this word signifies, but merely a non-concept derived by negation of a concept.