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It does.

I understand and am in agreement with what you've shared.

Thank you for your response.

God bless, brother.

 
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So then ...

"Why are we talking about deception, anyway?"



Well ... I don't think those of us that have experienced spiritual deception will be asking ourselves that question,
but for those that haven't, two of the reasons we are focusing on deception is because:

- Spiritual deception can be painful, hurtful ... very costly to one's life, one's soul.

- When we are spiritually deceived, we can also become a spiritual danger to others.



(Now, who amongst us wants any of that?)

 
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After many years in the Lord, I have found focusing on sin promotes sin. Focusing on grace promotes reverence for He who is the path to forgiveness of sin. I never hear people say, "it is okay to sin" go ahead, God will forgive you. That is something the sinner has devised to blame others for their own deeds.
We will reap what we sow… sow in love and grace and forgiveness and reap those rewards. Sow into fear and condemnation and reap those rewards.
That said, I am usually in agreement with Gideon who I see as promoting grace.
So it appears there is often a divide as to what grace is… is it forgiveness or is it license? If your truly looking to be forgiven, trust the Lord He is faithful to forgive. If you're looking for freedom to keep sinning, then you will probably not overcome whatever it is holding you captive.

Real freedom is freedom from sin, not the freedom to sin.

God bless, andrea
 
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No you were the one who twisted words and refined what the previous poster said to fit your own paradigm. Classic diversionary tactics used to insult others by appearing to be offended… it is at the very least insincere
 
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That is what I see also. The people who cry out "OFFENDED" are very likely the people who are accusing others of twisting their words. But what I saw was your words twisted so they could get offended and deflect from the topic of deception in the church.
The deception is not that there needs to be more law but that there needs to be more repentance, there is always grace for those that ask for it…. but if someone is caught in sin, they will soon stop asking bc the Lord will not be mocked nor does He get offended by our silliness. He is always reaching out to us to turn us around and call out to Him in our sin and ask for strength to overcome. The deception is from those who pretend forgiveness is given as a blanket answer without any need for a person to repent.
My read on scripture and in life is that we overcome by asking the lord to provide His grace and His strength to overcome our sin. As long as we are asking, honestly and desiring to be forgiven and delivered from sin, He is faithful to forgive us.
God bless, andrea
 
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I don't see anyone limiting the Lord's love or His mercy or His willingness to forgive… He tells us to repent and believe and be cleansed from all unrighteousness…. we still need to ask. We need to believe that He is a rewarder of those that seek Him.
In seeking Him, we are looking to Him for forgiveness. He is faithful to forgive us "IF" we are faithful to ask.
There is no measurement for the love of God it is boundless, no height or breath can old it or contain it. Only those that refuse Him and choose to go their own way are outside the gate of forgiveness.
Gideon often talks about how much grace the Lord has given and is willing to give yet people argue that there is no need to rely on God to overcome sin, just rely on grace… that isn't what the Lord said.
It is a subtle deception but it is deception. Lean on Christ. Believe Him. He is faithful to forgive us when we ask.
 
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I really liked this post… makes it easy to see when and how we can get off course. It is always good to examine ourselves in the light of scripture. No christian should fear to do a thorough examination and really go to the Lord and ask Him to show us where we are in need and where we need to repent… for too often we are blinded by our own egos or biases.
Deception happens to everyone, but the Lord doesn't leave us on our own, He has given us The Holy Spirit to keep us on course, to run the race to finish well… Praise the Lord His mercy never ends. I am grateful everyday for the Lord's faithfulness, even while I may not always be, He is.

God bless, thanks for all the great posts too
 
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ToBeBlessed

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You didn't understand the post
 
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It breaks my heart to see people attacking others who tell them they can overcome sin. They can overcome, hallelujah should be the response.
Too often the response is something about Pharisees or there isn't enough grace in the message….
To be caught in sin is not love or grace… it is deception. To overcome sin and know Christ has forgiven us and is faithful to continue to forgive us as long as we are faithful to ask is amazing.
My prayer is we all come to the knowledge of the truth of Christ's power to redeem and overcome.
God bless, andrea
 
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You didn't understand the post

and here I thought we were so close to being on the same page. You grasp the great love Christ has for us both… His faithfulness to forgive us. Why would that make you then bring up the Pharisees? Who neither believed Jesus or understood the love of the Father?
We who talk about repentance have been there and may be again. We understand He is faithful and He is able to help us overcome. It was only in my brokenness that I found I had no strength of my own, I had to rely on Christ's faithfulness to forgive me where I was. Defeated, I became an overcomer. Simply bc I came to the realization I had nothing to offer Christ but my own gratitude for His faithfulness, nothing I could do would ever MAKE me good enough. The only goodness in me is Christ and that is enough bc He is enough. Because His great love is enough and that make me love Him all the more… and then something happened and the old me started to not be so important and the new me began to overcome the old carnal desires…. sin was no longer as attractive as forgiveness and the love of Christ. The old me died, the new me lives in Christ. That is the message of grace. It is for all of us who believe. Some may never get to the point that they overcome, but Christ is faithful to forgive as we ask… as long as we ask in truth, believing.
God bless, andrea
 
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Sometimes I think perhaps those that oppose ‘repentance’ the most understand grace the least. For there is no repentance apart from it.

Repentance is simply a turning away from sin and a turning towards God. That’s how I like to think of it.

We are told to be transformed by the renewal of our minds. Our minds continue to be renewed, by grace, each time we choose to repent ... to turn away from our sin and towards God.

Many times when I read the Bible, my heart is moved to repent. When I read it, God shows me things I’m not doing, things I’m doing wrong. And so I will repent, and make that decision again to turn from my ways to His.

Repentance is a gift a grace, an act of grace. When we repent to see, do, think things God’s way ... our minds are renewed, our hearts are renewed, our lives are renewed. We are renewed!

It is deception, for any to believe that repentance is legalism or of the devil. No, it is that deception that is from him. Repentance isn’t legalism. Repentance is a gift of God’s grace to us.

Thank you for your responses, Andrea. (Lots of good 'stuff' in them!)
 
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ToBeBlessed

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The conversation that you are 'adding'/responding to was not about repentance, your whole response was about repentance which is another topic and an entirely different discussion.

Hence I said you didn't understand the conversation. That seems to be true since you switched the subject entirely.

Topic switching and word twisting is what the pharisee's did and tried to do with Jesus. What they said was [B]98% true, the deception was they added the false in there[/B] waiting for Jesus, who was without sin and only truth would correct them. Sneaky little deception going on there!

It's nice to see you back @Andrea411!
 
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ToBeBlessed:

In this thread, I have seen you to strongly disagree with jiminpa, SpiritPsalmist, Gideon, Andrea, and myself (the OP).

Now I honestly am not sure which of us you may be calling a 'Pharisee', but I can tell you that I do not believe that jiminpa, SpiritPsalmist, Gideon, or Andrea are 'Pharisees'. Their time and testimony on CF alone gives witness to the fact that they are not.

And I am not a 'Pharisee' either.


This thread is about deception.

And we can become deceived a multitude of ways.


One of the ways we can become deceived is by 'the company' we keep. Bad company corrupts morals.

"Do not be misled: Bad company corrupts good character."
(1 Cor. 15:33)


Like it or not, we can be influenced by the persons with which we choose to associate.

Another way I believe we can become deceived is by the internet itself.

Internet communication can be swell, but it also can be deceptive as there are limits to 'what' the internet can be expected to accurately communicate. So much is lost in internet communication, like the facial expressions and vocal tones of others. And then there may be language barriers. And there may be some persons that just can’t communicate well in writing. And, and, and. Point being, there is plenty of room for much misunderstanding when persons only know each other on the internet.

So the influence of bad company, the limits of the internet, and a host of others things can affect our perception of others on the net.

Now, there is no misunderstanding it, when someone calls another a 'Pharisee' ...

... but when persons post and say something that could upset me, I've found it really helps for me to stop and pray and really think about what I’ve read before responding inappropriately or harshly because of a wrong influence or bias or belief that may be affecting my perception at the time.

"Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
(1 Cor. 13)

If you are seeing me (the OP) as a 'Pharisee', or any of those I have mentioned, you are mistaken. We are not.

Admittedly I fail at times, but I do try to walk in love. I ask that you might consider doing the same and try to 'think no evil of us'. But if you cannot, and if you continue to be distressed by this thread, perhaps you might want to consider unsubscribing from the discussion.

God bless.
 
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ToBeBlessed

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I told a specific story about JESUS AND THE PHARISEE'S. Anyone can see that unless they are specifically targeting someone and spreading gossip.

I will comment on any thread I please. If people cannot read and comprehend that's not my issue.

You admitted you fail at times to walk in love. I think this is true and I agree with you. Luckily we can all try harder next time! I'll be praying for you to walk in love and that the Lord gives you wisdom.

Wisdom must be sought after, 'Seek and you shall find, knock and the door will be opened'. Jesus called out liars, the father of liars is not the Father of truth!

Purposely bearing false witness against their neighbor is breaking the 10 commandments. Thinking twice and writing once can help. Interesting that you chose a post on deception. Slippery serpent.
 
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Jesus called out liars, the father of liars is not the Father of truth! It seems your father is NOT my Father.


ToBeBlessed, I strongly suspect what you've said may be true.
 
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I will comment on any thread I please. If people cannot read and comprehend that's not my issue.

Of course you can.

In my discussion with you (above), I was only hoping to clarify for you that neither jiminpa, or SpiritPsalmist, or Gideon, or Andrea, or myself are 'Pharisees' and to point out that sometimes we can be deceived into seeing others as 'our enemy', based on other factors that may be influencing our perception of things.

 
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I would counsel us all to beware making this a place where generalizations evolve into personal attacks. The truth, if it is truth, must be spoken in love, truly caring for the welfare of the other in the discussions.

Was James speaking in love when he called believers adulterers and adulteresses? Indeed he was. Sometimes hard words are called for, for we are told that part of true ministry is correcting, rebuking, chastening, and it is beneficial if spoken in love. Words, even hard words, can come across in a positive way, especially if a way of escape is provided so that the hearers can benefit.

But there can be answers that possess a hidden agenda of pride, defensiveness, even hate. They can possess teeth, teeth that bite and devour, that wound for the purpose of wounding, not healing, words that no amount of skill can hide their true intent. Some use sarcasm, some use inferring something without having the nerve to speak out directly, some even use cute emoticons, or diversion, adding to another's comments subtle embellishments to sway the readers, or worst of all, making an attack personal if another's comments hits too close to home, thinking their intent hidden just enough to get by the rules of the forum.

May I say here that a man or woman may be well versed in the rules of the forum and be extremely skilled in dancing right along the line without breaking the rules, but what is broken is the rule of love, and God sees our heart motives. If we even say "You are a fool", Jesus says we are in danger of hell fire. Do we believe that or does grace now free us to do so?

If we, the ones who are Spirit filled, cannot get along in love, and we are supposed to be possessing the epitome of what Christ offers us believers, is it any wonder I put forth the truth that we are the lukewarm church? Do we grieve that we are like this? Have we forgotten thagt to whom much is given, much is required? Or, are we so angry at another who dares judge us or even suggest we are missing what God has for us....new love-filled, love-led lives, that we refuse to acknowledge our low spiritual state. Taking offence is not the path God has for us. Defending others....new believers.... from statements is generally revealing that person themselves is the one offended and responding by striking back.

Like Laodecia, we think we are fine, that we need nothing. We are wrong. God offers us brand new natures. We need them. It should be obvious and the fact that it is not only increases the truth of what I share. Now, will we ask for them as if our lives depend on the answer? Because they do. The man in the wedding feast who was found without his wedding garment on found out the hard way.

Blessings,

Gideon
 
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It was obvious I was talking about a bible story. It was written with specific references to Jesus. I don't see how that could have been misunderstood. I. Was defamed.
 
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