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Our Dear Andrew Doau
The end of July 2011 my neighbors of 18 years had a serious silent problem of domestic abuse. Sweet Andrew 22 years old and a survivor of leukemia was shot and murdered by his father Ed while he slept and felt safe in his own bed. This very wealthy family looked perfect on the outside. A full time maid, gardener, poolman, luxury cars which turned heads at perhaps how wonderful it must be from afar.
I knew the family very well, and at one time the mother came to me and asked for help. I talked with her and encouraged her to seek help call the police and get out of this situation. She went back after he said he would seek counseling. I kept a close eye on her and the children and it seemed like things were better. Until she finally got the courage to pack up quickly and leave, Andrew was in Europe studying early christians. When he came home from his trip Andrew wanted to stay with his father who stayed in the home across the street from me.
The mother of Andrew called me and asked me to check on Andrew because she and Ed were in the beginning of the divorce. So I went across the street and found Ed dead in his bed and Andrew shot in the head. Ed shot beautiful Andrew and then committed suicide. It has been quit a emotional ride fro the last 4 months and its very hard because I looked out every front window of my house and see their house all day long. The father tried to get the daughter over that night as well, but thankfully she was busy.
I am still in close contact with the mother and my prayers go out to her and their family.
The funny thing is that perople come out of the woodwork to make money. A tv station called ID wanted the family and myself to do interviews for the show Behind Mansion Walls. The family declined and I struggled if I would do it or not. Since it is for profit ( meaning the money for the show would not go for any cause) and we have 0 control over it I choose not to do it, although the show will still be airing sometime in January I think. I talked with the mother for along time tonight and i am so proud of her. She is strong with her spiritual walk with God and knows she will see Andrew again, but she is hurting badly for the loss of her son in such a horrible way.
We talked about making a documentary of Andrews life fighting cancer, domestic violence and finishing Andrews books that he started to write about God and giving the proceeds in Andrews name to the cause of domestic violence, cancer. I feel very good about that.
I am not sure where God is taking me with all of this, so I will wait on Him.
Feel free to respond.
Our Dear Andrew Doau
The end of July 2011 my neighbors of 18 years had a serious silent problem of domestic abuse. Sweet Andrew 22 years old and a survivor of leukemia was shot and murdered by his father Ed while he slept and felt safe in his own bed. This very wealthy family looked perfect on the outside. A full time maid, gardener, poolman, luxury cars which turned heads at perhaps how wonderful it must be from afar.
I knew the family very well, and at one time the mother came to me and asked for help. I talked with her and encouraged her to seek help call the police and get out of this situation. She went back after he said he would seek counseling. I kept a close eye on her and the children and it seemed like things were better. Until she finally got the courage to pack up quickly and leave, Andrew was in Europe studying early christians. When he came home from his trip Andrew wanted to stay with his father who stayed in the home across the street from me.
The mother of Andrew called me and asked me to check on Andrew because she and Ed were in the beginning of the divorce. So I went across the street and found Ed dead in his bed and Andrew shot in the head. Ed shot beautiful Andrew and then committed suicide. It has been quit a emotional ride fro the last 4 months and its very hard because I looked out every front window of my house and see their house all day long. The father tried to get the daughter over that night as well, but thankfully she was busy.
I am still in close contact with the mother and my prayers go out to her and their family.
The funny thing is that perople come out of the woodwork to make money. A tv station called ID wanted the family and myself to do interviews for the show Behind Mansion Walls. The family declined and I struggled if I would do it or not. Since it is for profit ( meaning the money for the show would not go for any cause) and we have 0 control over it I choose not to do it, although the show will still be airing sometime in January I think. I talked with the mother for along time tonight and i am so proud of her. She is strong with her spiritual walk with God and knows she will see Andrew again, but she is hurting badly for the loss of her son in such a horrible way.
We talked about making a documentary of Andrews life fighting cancer, domestic violence and finishing Andrews books that he started to write about God and giving the proceeds in Andrews name to the cause of domestic violence, cancer. I feel very good about that.
I am not sure where God is taking me with all of this, so I will wait on Him.
Feel free to respond.
