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Henaynei said:not to put too fine a point on the thing.... but if your bar mitzvah fell on a year that was or was not a leap year, the parasha for your bar mitzvah may or may not be a double and your actual birth date parasha may or may not be a single![]()
Henaynei said:at that site - note that there are different parashot for the Bar and Bat mitzvah![]()
go to the chabad site and calculate your date - once for Bar and once for Bat - you will see a differenceZayit said:Different how?
OK, I understand now, the Chabad site. From what I have learned of the bat Mitzvah, it was originally not an Orthodox ceremony( and is less than 100 years old in this country) but they adopted it and they are the ones using the age of 12, whereas the Conservative, Reform, and basically those not Orthodox, follow the same age as the boys, 13.Henaynei said:go to the chabad site and calculate your date - once for Bar and once for Bat - you will see a differencefor some dates...
For instance - 10/16/77 = Cheshvan 4, 5738
The BAR Mitzvah for that date is:
Torah Portion: Parshat Lech-Lecha
The BAT Mitzvah for that date is:
Torah Portion: Parshat Noach
fact is that boys are Bar Mitzvah'd at 13 and girls at 12 - and this highlights how the parasha of your birth date might not be the one of your Bar Mitzvah - which is the date the first link you posted was computing, it all has to do with when various leap years fell and how many days in your month *that* year - HOWEVER
the chabad link calculates your birth date and from their calendar you CAN find your birth parasha - go to their Date Converter and convert your birth date to Hebrew calendar - then click on the Hebrew date that is displayed and it will take you to a screen with the monthly calendar for that month and year on the right of the screen - just click on the calendar on the Saturday/Shabbat that *follows* your Hebrew Birth date and you have it!!
In my case it is all the same - birth/Bar/Bat - but as I've shown that *may* not be the case for everyone here
Shabbat Shalom![]()
dear dear Zayit - at the time this poem was written the word gay meant one with a joyous spirit - the term has been fairly recently co-opted by those who don't mean that at allZayit said:good maybe, but![]()