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msjones21

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It sounds like you've answered your own question. Perhaps you're looking for some affirmation. If it feels wrong then it is. I don't think God specifically commands that we shouldn't cuddle, but we are to flee sexual immorality and snuggling together (especially in bed) can ignite the fires of lust.

I have some opinions about dating co-workers, but I'll keep them to myself (BAAADDDD experience years ago) and focus on the cuddling. Anyway, just talk to the guy you're dating and then mutually agree to stop this behavior in its tracks. Don't spend time alone together at each other's houses and make a vow that you will let others hold you accountable. It hasn't been that long and it hasn't gone too far so it will be better if you nip this in the bud right now. Good luck to ya!
 
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