OOC: Lover (2)

[Nella Fantasia]

See? Relationships can be a pain in the butt sometimes

Though I wouldn't take back my husband for anything, however, I enjoyed the time in my life where I was single Each part of life has wonderful qualities that the others does not.

 

[CJF]

*waits ever so impatiently for someone to post* Just kidding. But no, really, I am impatient.

 

[LightofHeaven]

so we'bre talking about relationsips now?

at least you dont have to make excuses to your spouse when you want to go somewhere.... think about that!

"dont be angry, love, i am only going to the toilet."

Being single is so much less hassle. You're not constantly being ignored when there is no one to ignore you, never upset over something someone else did because they're not there. I don't know how many times I get a phone call because a friend of mine's boyfriend/girlfriend is being stupid and I have to clean up the mess.

*sigh*

Stuff like that makes me want to always be alone.

Single > Relationships

~Star

It is different for different people. I've been single fr six years. it is something i put myself into. And dont think i avent looked for the pros and cons because i have. Ive listened to people share their "terrible" experiences. I've seen them weep when they've been dumped. I've heard them tell me it is better being single. yet, even they still seek relationships. Why?

I know i dont need it, but nothing seems to be stopping me.

 

[StarSplitter87]

No one wants to be alone. Even if they feel it is better for them, they still want someone to connect to.

I was single for nearly 21 years, and I still don't know which is better.

~Star

 

[Nella Fantasia]

It is different for different people. I've been single fr six years. it is something i put myself into. And dont think i avent looked for the pros and cons because i have. Ive listened to people share their "terrible" experiences. I've seen them weep when they've been dumped. I've heard them tell me it is better being single. yet, even they still seek relationships. Why?

I know i dont need it, but nothing seems to be stopping me.

Because it's natural for humans to love and want to be loved. We are created after God's image, are we not? He loves and wants to be loved by us. It would only make sense that we would feel the same way.

You don't have to stop yourself from getting into a relationship, but don't make your priority trying to find one either.

 

[LightofHeaven]

We are His bride. He doesn't NEED us, He WANTS us.

i never made it my priority. i made it a game.

 

[Nella Fantasia]

<looks up> I um...I believe I did say He "wants"

 

[CJF]

A game? lol. I think that's even worse...

 

[Nella Fantasia]

A game? lol. I think that's even worse...

Yes, it is...I wouldn't consider love to be a game.

 

[CJF]

Me neither.

 

[Kitangel]

*gasp*

Playing Love is the most fun game ever!

 

[StarSplitter87]

Isn't love suppose to be fun though?

~Star

 

[MrFreshdew]

Isn't love suppose to be fun though?

~Star

woohoo!

 

[CJF]

I believe that yes, while love is supposed to be fun, it is NOT supposed to be a game. Games are for pass times, entertainment; love is NOT supposed to enteratain.

 

[Nella Fantasia]

I personally would hate for a man to court me thinking it's a game. It would make me feel like a desirable possession. But that's just me.

 

[CJF]

I agree completely.

 

[LightofHeaven]

Yes, it is...I wouldn't consider love to be a game.

I

I believe that yes, while love is supposed to be fun, it is NOT supposed to be a game. Games are for pass times, entertainment; love is NOT supposed to enteratain.

n a game, you win or you lose. Whether you win or lose ddepends on how you play. Same goes for love, you earn it or you lose it, and whether you earn it or lose it depends on how you "play".

 

[LightofHeaven]

*gasp*

Playing Love is the most fun game ever!

Wanna play?

I have a final today. Pray.

 

[Kitangel]

Wanna play?

I have a final today. Pray.

I'll play if you ask me nicely.

Praying for ya. Pray for me too, I have 2 job interviews tomorrow.

 

[LightofHeaven]

nicely? Now, don't scare me like that.