Why is it that Alcoholics Anonymous only has a success rate of 5%? Meaning that only one in twenty people who go to AA will actually stop their drinking.
Just wondering...
Just wondering...
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Unfortunately I do believe that the current recovery rate in AA is very low. But that is not because the 12 steps do not work, it is because few people apply the 12 steps thoroughly and honestly. It's like buying bought a bottle of aspirin and never taking the aspirin. Many people who attend AA meetings, never even try to apply the solution, but they say that AA doesn't work.
Part of AA is calling someone, from AA, before you take a drink of alcohol."
The book titled "Alcoholics Anonymous" has precise instructions for recovery. I do not believe this is one of the instructions for recovery. It would be a good idea to do, so do it if you can. But unfortunately there are many other idea's that have crept into the meetings of AA that are contradictory to the instructions:
"Put a plug in the jug" implies that we can defeat alcoholism by willpower. This is a idea that the instructions say does not work.
"Remember your last drunk", and "play the tape through" imply that our force of memory can prevent our next binge. This is also an idea that the instructions say will fail.
"Stay on the first step a year" and "Do a step a month" imply that we can take our time doing the steps. The instructions tell us to "Launch on a course of vigorous action", and "We, in our turn, sought the same escape with all the desperation of drowning men." These imply immediate action, not taking our time.
These and many other idea's are part of the reason AA no longer has the recovery rate it once had. The message has not lost its power, but we have lost the message.
The authors of the big book reported a 75% recovery rate in the forward to the first edition. In chapter 5, they claimed that "Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path.", and Doctor Bob claimed that "It never fails, if you go about it with one half the zeal you have been in the habit of showing when you were getting another drink."
These are strong statements, but the main difference between then and now is how many people actually do the steps. Recovery comes from doing the steps.
I can see this. I have yet to be honest in a meeting. Why I go there as a different Healy I just don't know yet but I suspect I feel too young to fit in so I just don't tell everything. I simply agree and move on or sit down and say very little.Unfortunately I do believe that the current recovery rate in AA is very low. But that is not because the 12 steps do not work, it is because few people apply the 12 steps thoroughly and honestly. It's like buying bought a bottle of aspirin and never taking the aspirin. Many people who attend AA meetings, never even try to apply the solution, but they say that AA doesn't work.
AMEN!!Unfortunately I do believe that the current recovery rate in AA is very low. But that is not because the 12 steps do not work, it is because few people apply the 12 steps thoroughly and honestly. It's like buying bought a bottle of aspirin and never taking the aspirin. Many people who attend AA meetings, never even try to apply the solution, but they say that AA doesn't work.
Originally Posted by devonian
"Remember your last drunk", and "play the tape through" imply that our force of memory can prevent our next binge. This is also an idea that the instructions say will fail.
"Put a plug in the jug" implies that we can defeat alcoholism by willpower. This is a idea that the instructions say does not work.
"Stay on the first step a year" and "Do a step a month" imply that we can take our time doing the steps.
The instructions tell us to "Launch on a course of vigorous action", and "We, in our turn, sought the same escape with all the desperation of drowning men." These imply immediate action, not taking our time.
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Why is it that Alcoholics Anonymous only has a success rate of 5%? Meaning that only one in twenty people who go to AA will actually stop their drinking.
Just wondering...
It's more likely that the 12 Steps are not the "best" and only way to recovery as advertised. The "thoroughly followed our path" is a statement used by members to avoid looking critically at recovery methods, no matter which method, and place the blame on the individual.
I disagree. First it is not advertised lol and it is proven through several generations if you truly follow the path, your chances are much greater for long term recovery.
AA's foundation is to take responsibly for ones own actions, just like any self help group if you fail to do the work you are most likely going to relapse.
Critically looking at the recovery brain and understanding more and more how the obsession works ( and since there is not a cure as of yet) many have found life time sobriety walking this path.
This may not be for everyone, and there are other ways of treatment modalities.
Its just like anything in life.. The harder you work on the foundation of something, the stronger you are in that situation. School, Work, Sports, Spiritual, Sobriety you name it.