ace85 said:
Listen ace. I'm out of my teen years so I don't feel the need to get into a "yes you do, no I don't volley." It never accomplishes anything except using up time that could be spent in better ways.
There is a difference between being pro-choice and pro-abortion.
Whatever helps you sleep at night. Tell me, aside from cases wherein the female is impregnated against her will, when else do you believe it is okay to murder the innocent party? Oh, and before you twist this, "not planning on getting pregnant" isn't "getting pregnant against her will." If someone voluntarily engages in intercourse then they must accept the responsibility that comes with the possibility of getting pregnant.
I am very much against abortion, but I don't think the government should be telling people what to do with their bodies.
I see. So, do you think the government should not be allowed to tell people they can drive under the influence of alcohol? It's should be their choice, right? After all, it's their body. You see ace, the issue isn't that the government is telling people what they are allowed to do with
their body. The government should be telling people what they are allowed to do with the life of someone else. Go ahead. Rationalize away. You've got two choices here ace. You can either acknowledge that the unborn baby is a life and, therefore, you are advocating unjustifiable homocide, or, you can claim that life doesn't actually begin until birth, and then you can explain what basis you make for that determination.
So you would rather have two children's lives be ruined.
You know, if this weren't so terribly sad it would be funny. We're not talking about
RUINING the baby's life. We're talking about
KILLING, ENDING, MURDERING the baby. Listen, if you're going to take the "pro-choice" stance, at least have the sand to call it what it is. What I'd rather is that parents be involved in their children's lives. What I'd rather is that parents raise their children with love and compassion so that the young girls who go get abortions don't feel like that is their only option. What I'd rather is that the government spend money on facilities purposed to enable young women to realize that they have the option of keeping their child and still succeeding in life. Let me tell you something since you seem to think, at 19, you are an authority on life. My sister got pregnant at 16 years old. My parents, while not pleased, while scared, while anxious, were still supportive of her. Every time I look into the eyes of my nephew, who is my heart, I know that things could have very easily been different.
Imagine a 15 year old girl gets pregnant, and abortion is not an option. Her parents kick her out of the house, she has no money, she has to drop out of school and ends up homeless on the street. How is she going to support herself and the baby? Abortion is clearly the best option in this case.
Again I ask, best for whom ace? Is it the best option for the little
LIVING baby who you are speaking of as if it is a nuisance rather than a
LIVING human? I don't deny that there are parents out there that are not prepared to deal with their young child getting pregnant. I don't deny that many young women feel that they have no other option. What I deny is that this isn't murdering an innocent child. What I deny is that this issue begins with dealing with a pregnant child. You see ace, this problem began long before that. When parents are involved in their children's lives and raise them to understand the responsibilities that accompany being sexually active they are less likely to be flippant about disposing of a human life. That's not the answer ace. It's the excuse. It's sidestepping the real issue.
That is unrealistic. Less than 10% of people wait until marriage to have sex. Less than 10%.
Ooooh. I get it now. You operate under the mistaken assumption that because children are not raised to respect either themselves or the sanctity of abstitance until marriage that we should just change everything. You see, this is the problem with the modern parent. They think, "Well, they're going to do it anyway so I might as well make sure they do it safely. So, I'll provide them a safe environment to do what they shouldn't be doing. I'll provide the contraception to help them avoid getting pregnant." Sure ace. Let's be "realistic." You know, it's funny how often axioms are true. Here's one for you. If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem. The solution to teen pregnancy isn't advocating teen sex "just because it's unrealistic to think we can educate them to wait." The answer is helping them to understand how precious such a union is and how God always intended that it be exclusive to the married couple. The answer is education and involvement ace. The answer is discipline. The answer is not to advocate ungodly behavior just because you feel it's beyond your ability to control. You know what ace? I have three children. I'm guessing you have none. My children may grow up thinking I'm strict. They may grow up thinking I'm old fashioned. They may grow up thinking that they missed out on a lot of things their friends are involved in. They may grow up thinking I'm crazy. I'll tell you what they won't think ace. They won't think I don't love them. They will never feel like they only have one option. You can continue to differentiate between "pro-choice" and "pro-abortion" but it makes no difference to me. They are both the advocation of murder.
That means that almost all people don't wait until marriage.
So if 90% of drivers are drinking alcohol and driving then should we just say, "Hey, ace and I think it's unrealistic that we hinder them from doing this. After all, almost all people are doing it?"
Abstinence is not the only way to prevent pregnancy, and there should be better education on ways to prevent disease and unwanted pregnancy.
I never said abstinence was the only way to prevent pregnancy ace. However, you and I are going to have different beliefs on acceptable methods for unwed people to prevent getting pregnant. You advocate finding a method that gives you an acceptable level of risk while I advocate the recognition that sex should be confined to the marital union.
Teen pregnancy has actually gone down since sex ed has been introduced. Just telling people "don't do it" isn't going to accomplish anything.
I agree that just telling people "don't do it" isn't enough. I never advocated any such thing so how about you stick to arguing against what I actually say, okay?
I'm not rebelling against God.
If you endorse the right to murder babies you are.
Just because I don't believe exactly as you do doesn't mean I'm evil and rebelling against God.
LOL! Ace, I'm a reformed Christian. In case you don't know what that means, it means that I think
ALL people are inherently evil until God changes their nature. No, we are not all a bunch of Hitlers or John Wayne Gacys. However, it is our inherent nature to rebel against God. Instead of assuming that I'm being self-righteous by telling you that abortion is only a necessary evil to those who wish to justify rebelling against the authority of God, you should understand that we all rebel against the authority of God and should always help each other see when we are stepping off the narrow path.
God bless