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One hundred children...

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faerieevaH

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Perhaps you remember the song. Anyhow... I want to ask for prayers as well to allow the Holy Spirit to come over me.
I'm a confirmation class teacher, or have been for 8 years. After I moved, I haven't yet picked it up again, but each year I go back to my old parrish for something that is called 'krikday' 'Krik' is the Dutch word for jack, I think. The thing you use to lift your car a bit when the tire is flat and you need to replace it. What it is is a meeting where the children who are readying themselves for confirmation from different parrishes come together. The numbers vary from about a hundred to about twohundred children. It's ment to push up faith, to be a little encourager in the last 'miles' before confirmation, before the Holy Spirit, hence the name.


Each parrish has a different theme that the teachers are responsible for, mostly it are symbols of the confirmation or the Faith like oil, water, fire, hands etc.
In groups of about 20 we get the children together to talk to them for half an hour before they move to the next theme. For some it's a brush up of what they've already learned, or a way to renew enthousiasm. For others (depending on which parrish they come from and how the confirmation class teachers work there) it can be almost an introduction.

it's the tenth year now that the Pastor and I will be giving the explenations on the cross and cruficix. Not the easiest subject perhaps for the children, but one that for us has carried the greatest enthousiasm. Each year it has felt as if I was indeed a tool in Gods hands. As if my words were more then my own words. It is the most powerful and humbling feeling in the world.

This year, two new people will be joining us, who have been taking over the confirmation classes and will participate in this 'krikdag' for the first time. Please pray for them and for me, that our words may not be our own, and may spark into the hearts of the children.
 

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*laughs* Teaching children is about the most frustrating and most rewarding thing there is. Especially here in Belgium. A lot of the children are brought to the lessons by their parents because they want them to do their confirmation. But why... they have no real idea, parents nor children. Mostly it's out of tradition. And many of the children and parents haven't set foot in the church for years and most are, when they start, not intending to set much foot in it after confirmation either.

Each year it's a struggle to tell parents that 'no... little Dirk can't go away half an hour EVERY single class, just because he has football practice'. And 'Yes, we understand that drawing lessons are important. I'm greatly interested in art myself. BUT it still is important that Natasha is in the lessons when she is suposed to be'. 'And no... it's NOT a good idea for your boy to wear a cap backwards on his head as part of his confirmation outfit because he WILL have to take it off when entering the church. No... that's not oldfashioned doctrine, it's basic RESPECT'...

And then we have children acting VERY surprised in the first lesson that Christmas for example has something to do with Jesus. And that Easter is not just about chocolate eggs.

*shudders*
Don't get me wrong. I love it. It's a wonderful way to make a difference. To teach about the Faith. Even if we have to resort to unusual methods at times. We also have groups of children who are developmentally behind in our confirmation class, from the local special needs school. Or children with severe behavioral and concentration problems. And to reach them, we have to severely adapt not what we teach, but how we teach sometimes. *L*

However, if you feel called to do this... I can tell you there is nothing so rewarding as doing this.
 
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faerieeva said:
Why am I getting nervous for something I have done nine times before?
I've taught First Communion/confession classes for a few years now and I still get nervous too.
:pray: for you!
(I've just been to Bruge a few weeks ago- what a lovely place!)
 
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faerieeva said:
*L* I should be too young to know it. Probably was the only teenager who raided her parents record collection.

Oh, not at all, believe me. I used to do it all the time, and the stuff I was listening to was on 78-RPM platters.

Try to find something nowadays to play those on. ;)
 
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Just got out of my teens a little over a years ago, but I still ask my uncle to tape parts of his record collection for me. I found some Nancy Ames records for him for last Father's day that he's finally gotten aroudn to playing (they just moved, and the record player was still in storage). But I've never heard this particular song. Time to hit the lyrics websites, I guess!
 
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