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Once Saved Always Saved - Why is it so hard?

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I think this is getting a bit muddled. You seem to be saying someone can't lose their salvation... unless they don't love their neighbor, and then they can lose their salvation.

Your position represents a conflict with scripture. Romans 10:9, for example, says one must confess with one's mouth and have faith, you are saved. It seems a bit off then that you apparently think someone who confesses with their mouth and has faith can't be saved just because of a pesky few murders.

As a Catholic, I can point to all those things and say that this person has obviously fallen out of state of grace and, without repentance, may very well not go to Heaven if he were to die at that moment. That doesn't cast any doubt upon his state of grace after professing the faith; it simply acknowledges that his sins (some of which I mentioned are mortal sins) would prohibit from entering Heaven upon death until he repents and takes the other steps necessary to address those sins.
 
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Salvation requires that we believe and confess that Jesus Christ the Savior is risen from the dead, and that we keep (obey) His commandments -- all of them. Our great God and Savior Jesus Christ plainly speaks of sheep and goats in the judgment. His sheep are those who keep His commandments and the goats are those who don't, even if they had deceived themselves in this regard.

Don't be deceived. Repent! Believe in Jesus Christ and keep all of His commandments strictly for the sake of pleasing Him, and be filled with the Holy Spirit. For the Kingdom of God (righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit) is at hand! It's just that simple (Romans 14:17) (Luke 17:21).
 
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I think you need to realize there are different versions of "Eternal Security".

Reformed theology advocates Eternal Security, but they believe not in salvation by faith, but salvation by election, which according to them occurs prior to one's birth. Thus the "elect" were never not saved, never in danger of going to hell, even while unbelievers. (You can tell from my rhetoric I discard that theology)

Another is Free Grace Theology which seems to be what you've heard. It advocates Eternal Security but denies the correlation between a person's behavior and their salvation status. They end up having to try to get around alot of verses and end up making a lot of unconvincing arguments (in my opinion) to get around those verses.

Another is what I and many believe. I think generally Baptists would advocate this viewpoint, namely believing in Eternal Security, but also recognizing that the scripture do indicate a correlation between one's behavior and one's salvation status. However unlike the "salvation by works" idea, the correlation is that good behavior is a natural byproduct of one's regeneration rather a cause of one's salvation. For example we note 1John 3:9,10 "No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God’s seed remains in him; he cannot go on sinning, because he has been born of God. This is how we know who the children of God are and who the children of the devil are: Anyone who does not do what is right is not a child of God; nor is anyone who does not love his brother." So works are an indicate rather than a cause of one's status. What causes one's behavior (not continuing to sin) is not the fear of condemnation (which is contrary to the idea of trust in Christ for salvation), but rather it's in the nature of regeneration (being born of God).

And this gets at a major point. What are we to trust in to be saved? The Eternal Security Christians like myself trust in Christ, while in my experience even on this forum, there seems a significant category of "Christians" who depend on their own works, their own performance to qualify them to be saved. And as you've noted they are so vehement, much like the unbelieving Jews, that they reckon people like myself heretics and subject to condemnation in hell fire because we trust in Christ. (Seems nothing has changed)

Just to mention a couple of verses.

"I tell you the truth, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life and will not be condemned; he has crossed over from death to life." John 5:24

"Now when a man works, his wages are not credited to him as a gift, but as an obligation. However, to the man who does not work but trusts God who justifies the wicked, his faith is credited as righteousness." Rom 4:4,5

And for the anti-Eternal Security Christians I would say, This is what the Sovereign LORD, the Holy One of Israel, says: "In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength, but you would have none of it." Is 30:15
 
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Fruit....
Fruit......
Fruit........

Show me some fruit baring qualities in your life then yes.... I will buy into your eternal security. If someone was once saved and is now turned into a party gal/guy, in which I know many, then no, I do not buy into their eternal security....

 
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And what did Abraham do, friend? He believed and he obeyed.

Actually you're kind of mistaken on that point. Note Paul's interpretation of Gen 15:6

Rom 4:1 What then shall we say that Abraham, our forefather, discovered in this matter?
2 If, in fact, Abraham was justified by works, he had something to boast about— but not before God.
3 What does the Scripture say? "Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness." (Gen 15:6)
4 Now when a man works, his wages are not credited to him as a gift, but as an obligation.
5 However, to the man who does not work but trusts God who justifies the wicked, his faith is credited as righteousness.


Paul's point here is that Abraham didn't do anything to be justified, but simply believe the promise of God. That's Paul's conclusion, Paul's interpretation of Gen 15:6.

So, no, Abraham didn't "obey" in order to be justified.

But what about you? What are you doing in order to be saved? Or if you think you're saved presently, then what did you "do", besides believing the promise of God, if indeed you had even done that.

Now if your salvation status is contingent upon your compliance to commands, exactly what command are those? And have you perfectly lived up to those commands to this point? Have you been living a perfectly sinless life? If not, then how can you think you are saved, if indeed salvation is contingent upon not sinning.
 
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I think the fact that believers are set free from the law of sin and death covers any residual sin.

For "there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life set me free from the law of sin and death." Rom 8:1,2
 
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If someone was once saved and is now turned into a party gal/guy, in which I know many, then no, I do not buy into their eternal security....

How do you know whether such people were "saved" to begin with?

"They went out from us, but they did not really belong to us. For if they had belonged to us, they would have remained with us; but their going showed that none of them belonged to us." 1John 2:19
 
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It is best to live this Christian life, bare fruit, and be the example Christ called us to be... And not to worry whether others are saved to begin with! As far as fruit bearing, here are some excerpts from John Bunyan's "The Barren Fig Tree" work:

6 He spake also this parable; A certain man had a fig tree planted in his vineyard; and he came and sought fruit thereon, and found none.
7 Then said he unto the dresser of his vineyard, Behold, these three years I come seeking fruit on this fig tree, and find none: cut it down; why cumbereth it the ground?
8 And he answering said unto him, Lord, let it alone this year also, till I shall dig about it, and dung it:
9 And if it bear fruit, well: and if not, then after that thou shalt cut it down. - Luke 13:6-9

In parables there are two things to be taken notice of, and to be inquired into of them that read.

First, The metaphors made use of.
Second, The doctrine or mysteries couched under such metaphors.

The metaphors in this parable are,
1. A certain man;
2. A vineyard;
3. A fig-tree, barren or fruitless;
4. A dresser;
5. Three years;
6. Digging and dunging, &c.

The doctrine, or mystery, couched under these words is to show us what is like to become of a fruitless or formal professor. For,

1. By the man in the parable is meant God the Father (Luke 15:11).
2. By the vineyard, his church (Isa 5:7).
3. By the fig-tree, a professor.
4. By the dresser, the Lord Jesus.
5. By the fig-tree’s barrenness, the professor’s fruitlessness.
6. By the three years, the patience of God that for a time he extendeth to barren professors.
7. This calling to the dresser of the vineyard to cut it down, is to show the outcries of justice against fruitless professors.
8. The dresser’s interceding is to show how the Lord Jesus steps in, and takes hold of the head of his Father’s axe, to stop, or at least to defer, the present execution of a barren fig-tree.
9. The dresser’s desire to try to make the fig-tree fruitful, is to show you how unwilling he is that even a barren fig-tree should yet be barren, and perish.
10. His digging about it, and dunging of it, is to show his willingness to apply gospel helps to this barren professor, if haply he may be fruitful.
11. The supposition that the fig-tree may yet continue fruitless, is to show, that when Christ Jesus hath done all, there are some professors will abide barren and fruitless.
12. The determination upon this supposition, at last to cut it down, is a certain prediction of such professor’s unavoidable and eternal damnation.

But to take this parable into pieces, and to discourse more particularly, though with all brevity, upon all the parts thereof. ‘A certain MAN had a fig-tree planted in his vineyard.’ The MAN, I told you, is to present us with God the Father; by which similitude he is often set out in the New Testament. Observe then, that it is no new thing, if you find in God’s church barren fig-trees, fruitless professors; even as here you see is a tree, a fruitless tree, a fruitless fig-tree in the vineyard.

Fruit is not so easily brought forth as a profession is got into; it is easy for a man to clothe himself with a fair show in the flesh, to word it, and say, Be thou warmed and filled with the best. It is no hard thing to do these with other things; but to be fruitful, to bring forth fruit to God, this doth not every tree, no not every fig-tree that stands in the vineyard of God. Those words also, ‘Every branch in me that beareth not fruit, he taketh away,’ assert the same thing (John 15:2). There are branches in Christ, in Christ’s body mystical, which is his church, his vineyard, that bear not fruit, wherefore the hand of God is to take them away: I looked for grapes, and it brought forth wild grapes, that is, no fruit at all that was acceptable with God (Isa 5:4). Again, ‘Israel is an empty vine, he bringeth forth fruit unto himself,’ none to God; he is without fruit to God (Hosea 10:1). All these, with many more, show us the truth of the observation, and that God’s church may be cumbered with fruitless fig-trees, with barren professors.
 
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Well, in addition to the Bible condemning Eternal Security, a major problem I see with Once Saved Always Saved (or a belief that says, "Sin Does Not Separate You From God") is that if such beliefs are preached to people by a preacher, the people can easily misunderstand such a preacher that he is teaching that they have "a license to sin" on some level (Regardless if that preacher wants that to happen or not). In other words, such beliefs merely attempt to minimize sin (Which goes against the goodness of God or morality).

Also, can God agree with sin?
Meaning, would not God have to agree with a person's thinking that they can sin and still be saved in order for God to save them?

But what about all our sins, you may ask?
There is no way we can walk perfectly and be without sin, right?

Well, first, Jesus says be ye perfect as the Heavenly Father is perfect.

Second, 1 John 5:16-18 says that there is a sin unto death and there is a sin not unto death. Meaning, there are sins that do lead unto second death (i.e. Lake of Fire) like murder, hate, coveting, theft, idolatry, adultery, etc. (Revelation 21:8, Galatians 5:19-21). Sins that do not lead unto the second death would be: Refusing to be baptized in this life (1 Peter 3:21), and boasting in each other and causing divisions (1 Corinthians 3:1-15), and hidden or secret faults (Psalms 19:12). So not all sins are serious sins that will cause you to be destroyed in the Lake of Fire.

Three, the Scriptures say, "For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness." (1 Thessalonians 4:7). When I think of OSAS, I think, what can I get away with now. For it is human nature to do the wrong thing. Oh, and yes. I did consider OSAS to be true for like a day or two. But after examing the Scriptures, I discovered it to be clearly false.

Four, but you might scream, "Ah, ha! You believe in Works Salvationism!"; And I would reply to that with a..... "yes" and "no." I do not believe we are saved by man directed works in any way, but I believe we are saved by God directed works. For are you not saved by the work of God with Christ's death and resurrection? Why is it hard for us to also believe that Christ has to do the good work within us to truly prove that Christ abides in us (Who is the source of our salvation)? (See 1 John 5:12). For Jesus said you can do nothing without me (John 15:5).

Romans 11:22 says,
"Behold therefore the goodness and severity of God: on them who fell, severity; but toward you, goodness, if you continue in his goodness: otherwise you also shall be cut off."


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I guess my question is how can you believe in once saved always saved if everyone one of us know at least one saved individual, whether you believe in Holy Ghost speaking in tounques being salvation, baptism in water, accepting god, that has turned away? Also the Bible says some will depart the faith giving heed to seducing spirits and doctrines of devils. It mentions backsliding as well. I agree with your introduction post if you go based off scripture rather then what we want to be true it seems the evidence points against once saved sways saved. It only gets complicated if we as the Bible says give heed to philosophies. If we read certain books and study other ideologies and such a bit too much it can get confusing. I tend to personally stay with the Bible and some study tools cause of that and just cause they are enough for me but yeah. The way you define salvation determines how tough this is also. I believe in the Holy Ghost (born again of spirit) so I can just look at acts 5 where aninas and Silas lost their Holy Ghost and died. But if you define salvation based off works than only god can judge when you die really. The Bible lets us know that those under old tesetmant law will be judged this way. Now with born again water believers this becomes tough. It's because water baptism just removes sins your born with it doesn't go away. So if you believe water baptism is enough then by definition once saved always saved applies unless you add good works as well(this could explain the wide spread of OSAS in this Century). But yeah certain extra things can make this confusing for some. As well as f you focus too much on multiple ideologies and philosophies as the Bible tells us not to do.
 
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I believe this explains why people believe once saved always saved today tbh. Many don't read the word but simply listen to preaches so when they hear that it sounds right
 
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The problem is.We are saved by faith and the end of our faith is received when Jesus returns.not before.
So what we have now by faith .
We will then' actually' have when he comes.
No one is actually saved yet (except by faith) so osas is possible only after Christ JESUS returns.until then people can walk away from the faith and perish.
 
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It is best to live this Christian life, bare fruit, and be the example Christ called us to be... And not to worry whether others are saved to begin with!

But to quote you, "If someone was once saved and is now turned into a party gal/guy, in which I know many, then no, I do not buy into their eternal security...."

So you're basing your rejection of the Doctrine of Eternal Security on the assumption that certain people you know were saved. And at the same time you say we shouldn't make judgments about other people's salvation status, which to me is a contradiction. I don't follow your reasoning.
 
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You signature is the most Non scriptural load of lies I've ever seen and denies the one (1) ONE mediator between mankind and God.
 
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The OSAS issue ultimately deals with morality or God's goodness. If a person were to follow the ultimate conclusion of where OSAS leads, they will conclude that it is against God's goodness or morality (Unless of course they are not concerned with God's goodness or morality). Why? Because OSAS is saying you can commit sin on some level and God will still save you despite your evil.


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Them that sin rebuke before all, that others also may fear. - 1 Timothy 5:20

There is a Baptist lady I know at work whom I thought that we were right for each other. But the more that girl talked... She does not think anything of weekend affairs. I finally told her, "You know I do not believe that you can do such things and enter heaven." In which she looks at me and instantaneously says... "Are you trying to threaten my salvation?"

Yes... If you think nothing about weekend affairs outside of marriage you will get a rebuke from me... I do not care how saved you feel you are!
 
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Why does the 'you can loose your salvation crowd always grab out the most extreme example that would not be 1/5000 th of the population and then stake their cause on that. As if God is making His covenant with us looking at the 1 in 5000 th person who would have some deep, deep seeded issues if not gross mental illness.

In doing this IMHO, they show that they do not know the Bible in that they do not know the nature of God much at all, because God is indwelling each individual believer and God knows EVERYTHING that will ever happen and our motivations for EVERYTHING we have ever done. Knowing how much God knows, let's us know that no one is pulling the wool over God's eyes and He can ONLY be perfect, righteous and just.

But the naysayer's grab the most ridiculous examples making God out to be a fool in the process when God can only be what God is. And a fool is not something He can be.

This is why I have trouble holding a conversation with people who do this. They never start a "valid" conversation to begin with, they started an "extreme" example that they want us to defend our position over.

Then if they feel they are loosing, comes "extreme" example number #2 and so on ...........
 
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I will say one part of what I said on the ;ast thread on OSAS I commented on.

We should live our lives as if we can lose our salvation.

In our own lives we should be living the best life we can and if we live it as if we can lose our salvation it will/may lead to us leading a better life and doing more for the Lord. The issue imo is when people fall away. My personal belief is it has to be a concious decision in your right mind to tell God to get out of your life to lose salvation and I have known people who have done that. So I dont believe OSAS but I do believe it s hard to lose salvation and has to be a deliberate choice.
 
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The other thing that I think is a huge divide is that people do not understand the different covenants and their timelines. If someone jumps from New Covenant (grace) back to the Old Covenant (law) than back, then forth, then back it throws everything out of whack.

It's important to know which Books of the Bible fall under which covenant and which situations occurred under which covenant. Then one can really see the difference in the two covenants and how God deals with humans under each covenant. And then I think Hebrews is awesome for explaining some of the Old Covenant things and how they were before and what they are now.

For example, someone pulls a passage from Romans and mixes it with Leviticus probably not going to be a lot of cohesion there.
 
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