On the verge of a drinking problem

[UK Mike]

Hi Bonnie

I think there are two kinds of people who go through what you're going through. One group can see they are drinking too much and easily cut back without it creeping back up over the following months. The other group (to which I belong) struggle constantly to control their drinking until they realize they really can't, and that abstinence is the only way for them. I have to say that I now absolutely love abstinence and couldn't bear the thought of going back to drinking. Only you can really know which group you belong to, but there is tons of support once people realize they are in the group who can't moderate drinking long-term. It's a very big group of people!

 

[SteveJr]

I think it's the Holy Spirit convicting you of your alcohol use which is a good thing. You really don't want to get to the point of realizing the hard way that you have an alcohol problem. By the grace of God I never killed someone or myself with my sin. I was a prodigal, in a sense that I was saved, loved God, but loved my sin more at that time. If you're sealed in Christ, but let the addiction control you, it will just get worse and worse; again, if saved you will be with God forever but why risk living a miserable life, wasting a good life where God has purposed you for better things to be used for His glory. My advice to anyone who drinks and see it getting progressively worse- seek help- ask for prayer, stay away from drinking- stay in the Bible. You will regret missed years if you travel down the wrong path.

 

[artqween]

I think it's the Holy Spirit convicting you of your alcohol use which is a good thing. You really don't want to get to the point of realizing the hard way that you have an alcohol problem. By the grace of God I never killed someone or myself with my sin. I was a prodigal, in a sense that I was saved, loved God, but loved my sin more at that time. If you're sealed in Christ, but let the addiction control you, it will just get worse and worse; again, if saved you will be with God forever but why risk living a miserable life, wasting a good life where God has purposed you for better things to be used for His glory. My advice to anyone who drinks and see it getting progressively worse- seek help- ask for prayer, stay away from drinking- stay in the Bible. You will regret missed years if you travel down the wrong path.

Friendly reminder the Holy spirit/God
doesnt convict/.. satan does that
Hey..

 

[SteveJr]

The Holy Spirit convicts (John 16:8)

Satan condemns (Romans 8:1)

 

[artqween]

The Holy Spirit convicts (John 16:8)

Satan condemns (Romans 8:1)

:-/ ?? Ill check it out what bible
Old or new???? Hey btw..

 

[Living in the Light]

Praying for you Bonnie! You are very wise to understand that alcohol is NOT "the Way, the Truth, and the Life." Love and devotion to God and our Lord Father Jesus will surely help you conquer this addiction. Do you have a church nearby that you could become involved with? AA can help as well. Regular church attendance, volunteering, and activities could help you replace your compulsion to indulge in alcohol. Finding the right church is key, so maybe do some exploring with various churches and denominations. Blossoming in the Holy Spirit is indeed an exciting, fulfiling Way of Life. Blessings to you in your new Life!

 

[artqween]

Praying for you Bonnie! You are very wise to understand that alcohol is NOT "the Way, the Truth, and the Life." Love and devotion to God and our Lord Father Jesus will surely help you conquer this addiction. Do you have a church nearby that you could become involved with? AA can help as well. Regular church attendance, volunteering, and activities could help you replace your compulsion to indulge in alcohol. Finding the right church is key, so maybe do some exploring with various churches and denominations. Blossoming in the Holy Spirit is indeed an exciting, fulfiling Way of Life. Blessings to you in your new Life!

Also consider.. Support groups at ur
Local hospital/clinic/.. also consider talking to ur family dr. With ur family
With u about med.s to help heal ur
Cravings from alcohol and the damages
From it.. im rootn for ya. may u feel better now..

 

[artqween]

I'm on the verge of a serious drinking problem and I'm trying to control myself. Right now I usually have 2-3 drinks after work every day. That amount isn't enough for me to become intoxicated. Although some days I get a bit tipsy during the work week even when I have to work at 0900 the next morning. If it's a weekend night and I don't have anything going on, I can easily put away a six pack and a 750 ml of wine.

I'm not really a social drinker and drink alone at my apartment. I'm certainly not a "party girl." To be honest I don't have that many friends. I was diagnosed with depression and social anxiety in my early 20's. I'm 25 now. I spent some time on anti-depressants and in therapy. I'm on neither at the moment. But when I find myself having a mental health relapse I often turn to alcohol.

I try to turn to the Lord instead of alcohol. I grew up in a Christian family but my parents didn't really push/encourage me to find Christ. In college I started to discover Him on my own. My life have improved tremendously with Christ in my life. But I need to get rid of the alcohol.

I don't consider myself a "drunkard" as described as the person that will not inherent the kingdom of God. Maybe it's because I've gotten used to the drinking, but I'm still function and never get hang overs. I've probably had 6-7 drinks tonight as I'm typing this.

I'm not sure what to do. I'm still not as close to the Lord as I want to be. If I was to die suddenly, I can't say if I would be saved or not. Alcohol is a distraction and I need to get rid of it. This could easily turn into a big problem for me as I have numerous people in my family that are alcoholics.

I need to make the change before things get even worse. Thank you for your help and suggestions.

By admiting ur drinking issue is a huge
Excellent start yeayee!! .. Just dont stop there. Plez check out my new thread "Hello awesome bro.s and sus's
In the new christain section lets party and fellowship.. Hey bonnie and everyone!!!! See ya there!!!!

 

[Frank White]

Sadly, I have people close to my with the same habit.

 

[artqween]

Sadly, I have people close to my with the same habit.

Awww can u get away from them for a while???? consider only adjusting ur path... For God.. he wants ur life incredibly peaceful ... May it be thst way 4ever hey btw