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Recently I have been plagued with fantasies of older women aka "cougars."
I have chated with a few online, and have intended to meet a few. I have even hit on my aunt via text message!!

Why do you think I have such an obssession?

I am trying to find out the reasons, and trying to stop, because it tends to be a destructive endeavor.

Anyone have this problem? Any advice?
 
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Lol. Please forgive me for laughing. Of course if you aren't married you should refrain from temptations but this is not an uncommon or concerning issue. I have the same thoughts about older men. I am married so I don't act but I do look and feel they re probably really good in bed. Your fine.
 
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