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Ok, how long do you wait?

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For the record, the young man in question, is an honorable man. He loves the LORD, serves Him and has been totally forthcoming. While I believe a lot of what's happened can be attributed to his youth, he would never do anything to intentionally hurt anyone. We are still friends, tho things have changed.
in Him, Leslie
 
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If God really wants two people together that badly, then letting the other person go will allow Him to demonstrate that. This is the kind of situation where it's easy to substitute your own voice for God's voice because your desires are so strong.

Moluku said:
His words don't show it, but his actions do. The friendship is slowly fading, despite my attempts. It's hard, and beginning to hurt too much, to try talking to him when he won't respond. There's a large time difference and he's stopped coming on at our usual time when we would normally talk and catch up on each other. But now, that door seems to have closed and I'm left confused as to why he's basically stopped talking. :cry: Oh well, such as life goes sometimes.
As the girl gets more obsessive, that becomes more smothering to the guy. That's why he's avoiding you, IMO. He said he didn't want to pursue a more serious relationship with you, but you're pushing for that anyway. Continuing to do so won't make it any better.
 
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