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odd feeling I got tonight

okay! so, here it goes. i've been dating Sofia for two months now. not bad for me i must say. ive always thought of myself as probably good in relationships, and now im seeing how difficult women are. anyways, my girlfriend is really great, its always great being with her, but it is sooooooooooooooooooo hard to get what she is feeling/thinking when we talk on the phone. i dont get to see her too often because we go to different schools. so we talk on the phone. usually its all good. tonight though was different. we were talking about tomorrow and im going over to her house a lot later than normal for no rhyme or reason. i dont think its bad, but every now and then i get this feeling, and this time its worse. shes not busy tomorrow, so i dont know why im going to see her so much later... just wondering if anyone else has these feelings and how they cope with them. sorry. maybe its just me being 16.
 

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If you're that worried about it, just ask her. As you probably know, talking on the phone doesn't allow you to see the facial reaction of the other person or help you understand their true feelings through body language. So, you have to get your answers verbally. If you are worried, tell her. Ask why you're coming later. Don't assume anything. Just ask.
 
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