immersedingrace said:
You BELIEVE you have shown this. Obviously, some of us disagree or we wouldn't still be carrying on this conversation.
It also doesn't say "Thou shalt not beat thy wife..." or "Thou shalt not beat thy children..." (and I'm not talking corporal punishment) but I hope we can all agree that that's "alluded to" in the bible.
My point: It does not have to say "Thou shalt not" or "Thou shalt" in order to be biblical.
blessings
Hi,
What are you getting at? I agree that wife or girlfriend beating is definitely NOT Christ-like behaviour and having had lady friends who were beaten by their partners, my heart aches for women who are treated like this. I should know, because I was slapped right down for losing my temper with women when I was in my teens. These days, I prefer to simply keep my distance from women who display any sense of hostility towards me. It might be a radical approach, but I have since become a very calm and placid person.
I'd rather much walk away from an angry and/or aggressive woman these days rather than retaliate.
Judging by activities I have seen advertised on some profiles by a number of people who are into naturism and nudism, I have to admit that many of them are *NOT* Christ-like.
These are some of the interests a few of them have come up with after doing a good search on Yahoo! (I hope that it doesn't make you guys too sick, but I am being honest with what I found).
Married but looking
Breasts and Nipples
Masturbation
Kinki Kids
Cherry Poppin' Daddies
Fisting
All In The Family
Jump, Little Children
International Order of Rainbow for Girls
Kid Swingers
Flashing
Incest Survivors
Child porn crimes
Older men for younger women
Older women for younger men
Webcams
Picture Trading
Exhibitionism and Voyeurism
Bi-sexual
Polyamory
Tantra
Most of these things go against moral decency and the status quo, and a good number of nudists who list activities like this are being investigated by police in their municipalities.
What makes things even worse is when you have women who condone these behaviours, when they are the ones who should be exercising some control or justice over their partners behaviour. Most of these people tend to be men who are aged between 40 and 70, and women aged 18 - 25.
Not one of them seem to be into Christianity or other activities that are supposed to be natural or where social justice is concerned like Amnesty International, environmental affairs, self-healing, meditation or yoga, or exercise and diet. This is what I had hoped that the majority of nudists would be in support of (especially because the nudist movement in the white man's world was started by Christians in the first instance).
We basically know that people who are perpetrators of sexually abusive behaviour were abused themselves when they were younger and only feel that they should have the right to make the weak and vulnerable suffer due to what happened to them. As they say 'what goes around comes around'. As Christians, what can we do to help these people or actively witness to them?
I agree that Ralph Ovadal's bully-boy tactics are definitely not the way of Christ. Should Christians really go and minister to people at nudist communes, beaches or resorts if one of Jesus' messages was 'Go into all the world and preach the good news to others.'
There are Christians who go to prisons, army barracks, mental hospitals, and women's refuges to minister without any hesitation - but make mention nudist environments and they either laugh, or chicken out at the idea.
FWIW, Kinki Kids is actually a Japanese karaoke pop duo and the Cherry Poppin' Daddies are a rather brilliant 40's orientated jazz swing band whose fans are VERY much against anything that condones child sex abuse or anything related to it.
Crashedman