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Nudge the Balance

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A 100 year old woman died after living a very long dignified life. When she met God , she asked Him something that had really bothered her for a long time. " If Man was created in God's image, and if all men are created equal, why do people treat each other so badly?"

God replied that each person who enters our life has a unique lesson to teach us. It is only through these lessons that we learn about life, people and our relationships with God. Thia confused the woman, so God be gan to explain:

" When someone lies to you, it teaches you that things are not always what they seem. The truth is often far beneath the surface. Look beyond the masks people wear if you want to know what is in their hearts. Remove your own masks to let people know who you really are.

When someone steals from you it teaches you that nothing is forever. Always appreciate what you have. You never know when you might lose it. Never take your friends and family for granted, because today and sometimes only this very moment is the only guarantee you may have.

When someone inflicts injury upon you, it teaches you that the human state is a very fragile one. Protect and take care of your body as best as you can, it's the one thing that you are sure to have forever.

When someone mocks you , it teaches you that no two people are alike. When you encounter people who are different from you , do not judge them by how they look or act, instead base it on the contents of what is in their hearts.

When someone breaks your heart, it teaches you that loving someone does not mean that the person will love you back. But don't turn your back on love, because when you find the right person, the joy that one person brings you will make up for all of your past hurts. Times a thousand fold.

When someone holds a grudge against you, it teaches you that everyone makes mistakes. When you are wronged, the most virtuous thing you can do is forgive the offender wothout pretense. Forgiving those who have hurt us is often the most difficult and painful of lifes experiences, but it is also the most courageous thing a person can do.

When a loved one is unfaithful to you, it teaches you that resisting temptation is Man's greatest challenge. Be vigilant in your resistance against all temptations. By doing so, you will be rewarded with an enduring sence of satisfaction far greater than the temporary pleasure by which you were tempted.

When someone cheats you, it teaches you that greed is the root of all evil. Aspire to make your dreams come true, no matter how lofty they may be . Do not feel guilty about your success, but never let an obsession with achieving your goals lead you to engage in malevolent activities.

When someone ridicules you, it teaches you that nobody is perfect. Accept people for their merits and be tolerant of their flaws. Do not reject someone for imperfections over which they have no control."

Upon hearing the Lords wisdom, the old woman became concerned that there are no lessons to be learned from mans's good deed's. God replied that Man's capacity to love is the greastest gift He has. At the root of kindness and love, and each act of love also teaches a lesson. The woman's curiosity deepened. God, once again began to explain:

When someone love's us , it teaches us love, kindness , charity, honesty , humility, forgiveness, acceptance , and all of these can counteract the evil in the world. For every good deed, there is one evil deed. Man alone has the power to control the balance between good and evil, but because the lessons of love are not taught often enough, the power is too often abused.

When you enter someone"s life, whether by plan, chance or coincidence, consider what your lesson will be. Will youteach love or a harsh lesson of reality? When you die, will your life have resulted in more loving or more hurting? More comfort or more pain? More joy or more sadness? Each one of us has the power over the balance of love in the world. Use it wisely!"

Don't miss an opportunity to nudge the world's scale in the right direction.

Pass this lesson on to those you love and those you have hurt, and those that have hurt you. Hopefulluy with each person that receives this, there will be a far less evil and a great deal more compassion , caring and love!

 
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