If I get a divorce will I go to hell? I don't know if my spouse has cheated on me but he is constantly putting me down and verbally abusing me and trys to make medo things I feel uncomfortable with I got to the point were I I say mean things to him too. It got to the point were I went to another man for a day for love. The reason if I tryied to leave h I'm him he will attack me with the bible saying I'm demonized and satan is trying to split us up. Help please! Also my relatives think I'm in a bad situation. I feel like I was forced to marry him in the first place I'm not even attracted tto him.
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Divorcing does not mean you will go to hell. It sounds like you've got some pretty serious concerns/issues you are dealing with in your marriage. I will be lifting you in prayer. 
Have you spoken with a pastor or counselor about these things? I would recommend you start there if you havent. I would also recommend that you confide in your family - if you haven't already - if you are able to get support from them as you deal with this. I would caution you to choose one or two family members you are close to and who will be able to maintain confidentiality about your situation, though, so your private life doesn't become dinner time conversation material.
Have you spoken with a pastor or counselor about these things? I would recommend you start there if you havent. I would also recommend that you confide in your family - if you haven't already - if you are able to get support from them as you deal with this. I would caution you to choose one or two family members you are close to and who will be able to maintain confidentiality about your situation, though, so your private life doesn't become dinner time conversation material.
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No, you wont go to hell. I dont know who came up with that thought or how...but you wont.
I agree that you should see a counslor, and he definatly needs to attend a few sessions himself. He cannot attack you with things that he interprets from the bible if he himslef cannot follow Gods laws. Listen to your family, they do love you. If it cannot be fixed, then divorce is an option. It would be better to be seperate than live in a destructive relationship.
I agree that you should see a counslor, and he definatly needs to attend a few sessions himself. He cannot attack you with things that he interprets from the bible if he himslef cannot follow Gods laws. Listen to your family, they do love you. If it cannot be fixed, then divorce is an option. It would be better to be seperate than live in a destructive relationship.
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