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Gender seems to be a factor, especially as far as socialization is concerned. Boys are more frequently encouraged to be daring, to take risks, to think outside the box, while girls are often being taught to be gentle, compliant, and to stick to the rules. A couple of decades of equal rights have contributed to *some* changes in this regard, but it's still there - *especially* in religious circles, which tend to take a considerably more conservative stance when it comes to gender roles.I don't know. I don't think there are generalities to make for men or women. I think women can tend to be more religious, but I don't think that is necessarily a sign of being closer to God. But, there is something about becoming a mother that causes women to want to make sure their children are brought up in church.
Where are we are going when we die, how do we get meaning in life, how do we live a moral life if there are such things, how do we engage God is he/she/they are personal? These questions and our various answers could be defined generally as "religious worldview."I end up meeting nowadays more and more people who practice something and believe in something, which is difficult to define. Might be a bit like a religion, but isn't quite.
Would for example, people who believe in spirit guides be religious in your books? Or when someone believes they are spiritually one with the nature? When someone is just spiritual but not religious? What is it called when someone has a mix of life philosophy and spiritual practices, but doesn't really follow any particular religion.
What's in your opinion, a fundamental difference between things like life philosophy, value system, religion, spiritual practice etc.?
I don't really have any point to make here, just asking for random thoughts on the topic, for thought food. As nowadays traditional religions are losing ground, but people still practice all sorts of elements of religions, it's getting a bit blurry.
What I was referring to, was that there is a culture of 'double talk' in Christianity, when Christians want to convert you, it's all easy and free, just about accepting Jesus and no demands or works ever. .
Boys are more frequently encouraged to be daring, to take risks, to think outside the box,
I don't disagree- people who are saved want to work, but there are people who do not work, or people who work for the wrong reasons.
Have you kept all the things James has written? It's a long list. I have not.
James was written to the twelve tribes, not the Gentile believers- just as Leviticus and Deuteronomy was written to the Jewish nation.
I Corinthians 3:15 "If any man's work shall be burned, he shall suffer loss: but he himself shall be saved; yet so as by fire."
What they meant was that no preparatory work was required before being accepted by Christ. If anyone ever told you "no demands ever" after acceptance by Christ, they were simply lying.
Then Jesus said to his disciples, "Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.
Jesus answered, "If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me."
So you see, faith by itself isn't enough. Unless it produces good deeds, it is dead and useless.
The commands of following make a lot more sense in the Gospels when Jesus was a physical person, but, according to the Bible, nowadays Jesus resides within Christians. I think the command/call of following becomes a lot more wierd in that context. How to follow something that is in you?
Also, if you were to find the closest replacement for the word "faith" in the Bible, what word would you use?
Sure, in the context of your religion. But that's irrelevant for someone whose framework does not include Christ.Your gods are whatever dictates your choices. Your gods are whatever you obey.
If that's not Christ for any given choice, then that is an anti-Christ.
Sure, in the context of your religion. But that's irrelevant for someone whose framework does not include Christ.
The distinction I was trying to make was this: I don't think that women are closer to God (ie spiritual) but they may be more religious (ie conforming to religious rules). I actually think you and I may be saying the same thing.Gender seems to be a factor, especially as far as socialization is concerned. Boys are more frequently encouraged to be daring, to take risks, to think outside the box, while girls are often being taught to be gentle, compliant, and to stick to the rules. A couple of decades of equal rights have contributed to *some* changes in this regard, but it's still there - *especially* in religious circles, which tend to take a considerably more conservative stance when it comes to gender roles.
With this in mind, it should not come as a surprise that women are more likely to stick to these organized world views - even in cases where they are clearly established as second-class citizens.
I disagree with your interpretation. The foundation is clearly Christ and Paul is clearly talking to believers. He talks about the works being on this foundation which is Christ.For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. -- Ephesians 2.
For as we have many members in one body, but all the members do not have the same function, so we, being many, are one body in Christ, and individually members of one another.
Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, let us prophesy in proportion to our faith; or ministry, let us use it in our ministering; he who teaches, in teaching; he who exhorts, in exhortation; he who gives, with liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he who shows mercy, with cheerfulness. -- Romans 12
Nothing anywhere in the NT suggests a Christian has nothing Christ expects of him after becoming a member of the Body of Christ.
Let's put that back into its context:
For we are God’s fellow workers; you are God’s field, you are God’s building. According to the grace of God which was given to me, as a wise master builder I have laid the foundation, and another builds on it.
But let each one take heed how he builds on it. For no other foundation can anyone lay than that which is laid, which is Jesus Christ.
Now if anyone builds on this foundation with gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, straw, each one’s work will become clear; for the Day will declare it, because it will be revealed by fire; and the fire will test each one’s work, of what sort it is.
If anyone’s work which he has built on it endures, he will receive a reward. If anyone’s work is burned, he will suffer loss; but he himself will be saved, yet so as through fire.
This has nothing to do with the good works one does as a functional member of the Body of Christ, but on those who are working on foundations other than Christ.
This slogan has been in circulation since the 1960s, when evangelical Christianity tried to re-brand itself as something other than religion (because a younger generation became skeptical of organized world views).For the record, I HATE religion and think it drives people away from God. I do not consider Christianity to be a religion, but a relationship with Christ. It is why I do not identify with any sect.
I appreciate the fact that you don't believe I am selling something, because I am not. It is very simple. I believe religion says "you HAVE to do something". Some people think they have to do something to be saved, some people think they have to do something after you are saved, otherwise you are not a Christian (if you are not doing).This slogan has been in circulation since the 1960s, when evangelical Christianity tried to re-brand itself as something other than religion (because a younger generation became skeptical of organized world views).
But the fact is: the meaning of the word "religion" in the English language is pretty much *defined* by Christianity. You'll have trouble fitting many an Asian religion into the definition you find in English dictionaries, because those are so clearly modeled on this particular brand of Abrahamic monotheism.
I see what you're saying, and I don't think you're the kind of "insurance saleswoman" who just tries to sell the same product under a different name: you dislike legalism, and think spirituality ought to be something more immediate, personal, and perhaps even individual. In that, I agree with you - I just don't think your particular world view could ever fit that description, because it relies too strongly on scripture, tradition, and dogma.
I'm not going by a dictionary definition, I am going by my definition.
Religion says "do" faith says "believe". In this case, Asian religions are very much a religion and not a faith as certain rituals are necessary.
I do not consider Christianity to be a religion, but a relationship with Christ.
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