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My dad could live 5 more minutes, or up to 2 days... He is dying a slow painful death, and I'll be honest I just want him to die, its been like this for a week today. It's so hard watching him like this. Is it wrong for me to want him to die? (Brain hemorrhage, fluid in lungs, muscle death, several infections)
 

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i felt the same when my mom died. i too prayed God would take her sooner than He did, but it was His timing, not mine. He kept her around one grueling month (for both of us) but as i reflect back, that month gave me a chance to give my mom the lifetime of love she never got from me.

my mom too wanted to die. she was ready... i made sure she was ready too, spiritually.
 
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