Non-Physical, yet Romantic

[GivingMyAll4Him]

maybe so, snotling, but its been two months since we started dating and nothing physical yet, and i can honestly say that neither of us "crave" anything... this is kind of silly to argue since i believe that a kiss CAN be completely honest and does not necessarily make any difference in a relationship, HOWEVER, my girlfriend and I decided not to, and that is a decision we both plan to stick to.

Also, not kissing makes it necessary to be more creative on dates...we have had more fun that we would ever have together because the focus is not "action" at the end of the date.

Time to grow up? I would like to point out that i have been very open to your opinion, and all you have done is try to insult me. Your point may well be taken more openly if you were respectful (what is it about respect that you cant understand?).

 

[GivingMyAll4Him]

drfeelgood,

you seem to be a popular guy from the sounds of the replies to the post! thanks for the ideas, but i would have to say that i am in a small town in nebraska, which really is quite different than anywhere you described...we literally have to drive to a different city to find a restaraunt with TABLECLOTHS! However, we do think very similarly, as that is exactly the way I focus a date...spoil her, make her feel special, go out of your way to make her the center of the night...(of course there have to be lighter dates too...popcorn, movies, and a comfy couch are always good too). I guess the most important part for me is for both of us to have fun... I know i started this thread with no ideas, and i have really gone in a different direction than what anyone has suggested because we live in different places, but this has been helpful, and it really got me thinking...

THANKS TO EVERYONE

 

[ashlee]

One great date might be to take her on a picnic somewhere. make sandwhiches, bring strawberries, maybe even a bottle of sparkeling grape juice That would be inexpensive, and fun. Since its winter, you could take her ice skating, maybe in an outdoor rink, where you could look at the stars. very romantic !

Also if you want to make her feel special, call her every night on the phone. The internet is not as personable, and you can get to know more about her on the phone. She will appreciate it if you call!