Very simple - sexuality is an important part within a relationship, apart from love, understanding, respect etc.
Imagine you find out on your wedding night, or the weeks and months beyond, that you are not compatible sexually. What a horrible situation that would be! Men might go to a brothel, but what are women supposed to do? Suppress their desires for intimate and loving closeness?
If you can find out before you intend to bind yourself permanently (and I mostly hope that marriages are well thought through and last a long time!), I am all for it!
BTW - I'm not one who supports hopping through bed indiscriminately!
If you're not compatible sexually, you can always learn to be through communication and commitment.
In the long run, its love that binds, not sex. I could not imagine choosing your life's partner based on sexual compatibility.
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