no one understands!

[luv4godremains]

I know that sounds really self-orientated type of thing, but it's true, well, I know people do understand, just not anyone I know in the flesh!

I wish they would stop calling me manic depressive, because the fact is, I'm not! and it really annoys me that they mistake my teenage mood swings with being manic depressive, I do have problems with depression, and I will be seeing someone about it in a few months, but untill then, I wish they would not say anything about it, cos it's really beginning to upset me, to think that they could be so insensitive as to call me that! I know there is nothing wrong wit it if I was, but I'm not, so why do they think it's ok to call me it? even my best friend!

ahhhhhhhh, I just wanna scream right now, scream at everyone who has ever called me crazy or manic depressive or metal, or anything like that because if they knew what it was like, they would never say that!

sorry, I guess this was just a rant, but I also wanted to know if anyone else here has had the same problem, or how to stop people from saying things like this?!

 

[Sojourner<><]

Yeah I know what you're talking about. I've had a nice long ride on that rollercoaster.

I've learned that it helps to adapt. I've gone through it enough to know that when I hit a low point that it's going to get better so I try to adapt to keep myself from hitting bottom each time. I do things like exercise and go on nature hikes, etc to lessen the effects. Also I've learned that I can't expect everyone to understand what I'm going through. There are a few people who do and they tolerate me to the best of their abilities. Slowly over time with God's help I have been able to gain control over this crazy ride rather then letting it control me.

 

[luv4godremains]

thanks souljourner, I don't get that bad, I think it's because my mood swings a worse than most teenagers, but what do they expect? I struggle with depression for various reasons and sometimes it's worse, others better! I guess I just need to adapt to them not understanding, next time they call me manic depressive though, I'll try one more time to explain that I'm not, and hopfully be able to control myself instead of getting really angry or offended!

 

[Sojourner<><]

You're very welcome

Also, it helps to remember that although it's good to make a good impression and have lots of friends and all that, in the long run it really doesn't matter what people think about you.

 

[BOJAX]

I know that sounds really self-orientated type of thing, but it's true, well, I know people do understand, just not anyone I know in the flesh!

I wish they would stop calling me manic depressive, because the fact is, I'm not! and it really annoys me that they mistake my teenage mood swings with being manic depressive, I do have problems with depression, and I will be seeing someone about it in a few months, but untill then, I wish they would not say anything about it, cos it's really beginning to upset me, to think that they could be so insensitive as to call me that! I know there is nothing wrong wit it if I was, but I'm not, so why do they think it's ok to call me it? even my best friend!

ahhhhhhhh, I just wanna scream right now, scream at everyone who has ever called me crazy or manic depressive or metal, or anything like that because if they knew what it was like, they would never say that!

sorry, I guess this was just a rant, but I also wanted to know if anyone else here has had the same problem, or how to stop people from saying things like this?!

I know what it is like. People call me depressed because I am not following in earthly desires like lust for money, dressing in the latest most expensive name brand clothes, etc etc

Read Matthew 7:1-5

These people who accuse you may have a greater problem than you have. remember God who made you understands.

Stay Gear
-Jamie

 

[bluedart]

thanks souljourner, I don't get that bad, I think it's because my mood swings a worse than most teenagers, but what do they expect? I struggle with depression for various reasons and sometimes it's worse, others better! I guess I just need to adapt to them not understanding, next time they call me manic depressive though, I'll try one more time to explain that I'm not, and hopfully be able to control myself instead of getting really angry or offended!

Hi luv4godremains,

When I have gotten depressed I drew comfort in that some of the Bible's most notable characters experienced depression: David, Elijah, Job, and Jesus. Yes, Jesus! In Gethsemane on the even of His arrest and soon crucifixion Jesus said to His disciples, "My soul is exceedingly sorrowful, even unto death" (Matthew 26:38, KJV).

Anyhow, when people label you or try to shame you I would just tell them how it makes you feel and what you long for from them (respect and understanding and love). It helps them empathasize better. And even if doesn't work you still get to express your feelings and not keep it bottled up inside without attacking them. You can also not associate with them if it doesn't stop. If they are not willing to respect you and understand you do you really want to be friends with them?

Peace.

 

[luv4godremains]

thanks guys, I think they've kinda got the idea, or at least I hope they have, they don't seem to do it anymore, it's just annoying really! I'm getting better too i think! God bless you guys, your all in my prayers!

 

[TheMainException]

There really is no way...it's hard.....just ignore them love.....