No One Cares

[HisW0rd]

I just came to the realization that not one single person cares about me. Not even my family and I already went past the stage of 'what did I do wrong?' As far as the answer to that question, I know what I have done, but its not even close to what they did to me. Nobody calls me, nobody asks me how I am doing, and no one bothers to acknowledge I am here. The only time they do is when they want to use me. Cooking, cleaning, givine my time or money, babysitting, doing hair, encouraging, praying, and a lot of other things. I got tired of people using me so I stopped doing hair and some other things. As soon as that stopped so did the phone calls. I mean I am here to encourage any and everyone. I am here to pray for you but it hurts that no one bothers to do it for me. I have to depend on those 'I will pray for you' bits and I am wondering if those people really are praying then how come there is no impact. I can pray for someone and see the Lord move but why does it always seem idle for me?

Now the phone calls I get are mainly to make people feel better, help them out, and etc. Even though I am not loved, liked, or welcomed, I still think I have to do those things for our Lord.

Even after thinking about all the nice gestures people have done for me. It wasnt from the heart, as soon as I realize they were using me and I stopped whatever it was. They stop calling me.... They call themselves christians too

 

[bereue]

yes, many people do need christ, keep them in your prayers as i will keep them in mine for all 'good' things as well.

you are in my prayers.
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[BAFRIEND]

I have prayed for you.

 

[jesuslovesme54]

I can feel where your coming from. I am going through tough times now and even though people called at the beginning they don't anymore. I've come to realize that through this I have found out who my true friends are and I've turned my life over to Christ. He is the only one getting me through life right now and he has actually made me stronger. I hope things get better for you and I have prayed for you. I know He will pull you out of these tough times. If you ever need anyone to talk to, I'm only a PM away. God Bless

 

[ParaCristo]

people will always fail us....
God never will though...

May the God who loves all of us like His Children give you peace and comfort...and a warm embrace when you feel like no one else will.

I will keep you in my prayers!!!

God Bless
Ed

 

[faithchic05]

praying

 

[mom_one]

praying for you

 

[LadyMarion52]

I just came to the realization that not one single person cares about me. Not even my family and I already went past the stage of 'what did I do wrong?' As far as the answer to that question, I know what I have done, but its not even close to what they did to me. Nobody calls me, nobody asks me how I am doing, and no one bothers to acknowledge I am here. The only time they do is when they want to use me. Cooking, cleaning, givine my time or money, babysitting, doing hair, encouraging, praying, and a lot of other things. I got tired of people using me so I stopped doing hair and some other things. As soon as that stopped so did the phone calls. I mean I am here to encourage any and everyone. I am here to pray for you but it hurts that no one bothers to do it for me. I have to depend on those 'I will pray for you' bits and I am wondering if those people really are praying then how come there is no impact. I can pray for someone and see the Lord move but why does it always seem idle for me?

Now the phone calls I get are mainly to make people feel better, help them out, and etc. Even though I am not loved, liked, or welcomed, I still think I have to do those things for our Lord.

Even after thinking about all the nice gestures people have done for me. It wasnt from the heart, as soon as I realize they were using me and I stopped whatever it was. They stop calling me.... They call themselves christians too

Hon i'm so sorry you are going through this. This has been my whole life and i'm 53. I've come to expect that is my cross to bear on this earth. Also I have come to know that when you do something for someone never expect anything in return. Not even a thanks. People are sometimes so wrapped up in their own world they forget that others are hurting also. It's just the way people are. If I get thanked I thank The Lord for the thanks I got and give it on to Him for any goodness that I have done belongs to Him anyway. I know it hurts and its a thankless job but if God calls you to pray and help others then that is your road. There are others walking the same road who will be there for you. Hang in there and never ever give up. Sometimes you need to take a sabbatical and just rest and reflect and pray for your own strength and needs. There was a song that I identified with so much and you may to. It was called " The Warrior is a Child" this person prayed and fought spiritual warfare and helped others until she was beaten down and was not able to do anything so she knelt down and placed her shield over her and just lay there until she was able to go fight the fight again. Sometimes you need a rest. I don't know you but I personally want to thank you for all the work you have done for others. You will be rewarded richly for it. Maybe not here but when we meet Our Lord you will have jewels in your crown to toss at His feet. Take encouragement and realize that you are that warrior of God. Warriors get tired. Thank you for the good fight of faith and for all the good works you have done for others. Thank you for caring for others. That is a rare quality. God has blessed you with a wonderful gift. The gift of Empathy and Caring. Rest my child and be not weary in well doing!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God is with you and He sees your works. Have faith that He always rewards the faithful. God bless you hon Love Lady Marion

Dear Lord Jesus please bless this person. Please give them rest and peace and wisdom and understanding. Lord show them how much they are doing for You and encourage them to keep on keeping on no matter what the price is worth it. Bless them and keep them. Give them Your strength and Your love and Your power to go about their task You have set them to. I ask this in Jesus Name Amen

 

[JPPT1974]

Lord help our sister and that
You do care for her
Uplift her to know and comfort
And guide her Lord
In thy name and will
Lord of all your children amen

 

[Onlythingavailable]

Praying for you.

 

[Warrio]

praying

 

[peacechild4]

Hurts can be good if they draw us closer to God.. It is in this place that we look up and see Him so close and so near.. May God lift your tear-stained face and bring you peace and strength that you never knew was there.. So that your joy returns and nothing can take it away..

May these hurts be what God uses to show You his love and mercy so that in time.. as you grow stronger.. God can help you to be there for those around you.. who don't know His great love too.. It is the lack of knowing Gods great love that causes those around us to hurt us.. becauses they themselves are hurting too.. Oh... how we all need more of God..

Father God so many are hurting.. but I praise Your name.. You are deeper... wider.. longer.. and higher then any hurt.. Your love is so wonderful.. that when we know it.. our tears dry.. or they fall thick and fast because we are so aware that You are more then enough and it is simply amazing.. Father overwhelm this one with Your love and depth of compassion for them.. Father through these hurts may they find the depth of Your love and may they no longer be overwhelmed by the trials of life.. Father Your comfort is out of this world.. Your peace more precious then anything.. Father comfort this one.. and may this pain be for a purpose.. the finding of Your love that never ends.. I ask this through Jesus name.. amen

 

[TrinityFrEak]

you only think knowone welcomes you. but WELCOME TO PRAYERS ! im prtaying for you that u know u ARE loved, and not abandoned. God is always with you. my church had a lesson on this. and u know wat the pastor had us do?, repete 'god loves me more, than his discust from our sins' over and over again. so maybe you should take some time, and think about that yourself, and keep listening carfully for God's instructions.
-Trinity

 

[myangelinheaven]

praying for you!

 

[HisW0rd]

Hon i'm so sorry you are going through this. This has been my whole life and i'm 53. I've come to expect that is my cross to bear on this earth. Also I have come to know that when you do something for someone never expect anything in return. Not even a thanks. People are sometimes so wrapped up in their own world they forget that others are hurting also. It's just the way people are. If I get thanked I thank The Lord for the thanks I got and give it on to Him for any goodness that I have done belongs to Him anyway. I know it hurts and its a thankless job but if God calls you to pray and help others then that is your road. There are others walking the same road who will be there for you. Hang in there and never ever give up. Sometimes you need to take a sabbatical and just rest and reflect and pray for your own strength and needs. There was a song that I identified with so much and you may to. It was called " The Warrior is a Child" this person prayed and fought spiritual warfare and helped others until she was beaten down and was not able to do anything so she knelt down and placed her shield over her and just lay there until she was able to go fight the fight again. Sometimes you need a rest. I don't know you but I personally want to thank you for all the work you have done for others. You will be rewarded richly for it. Maybe not here but when we meet Our Lord you will have jewels in your crown to toss at His feet. Take encouragement and realize that you are that warrior of God. Warriors get tired. Thank you for the good fight of faith and for all the good works you have done for others. Thank you for caring for others. That is a rare quality. God has blessed you with a wonderful gift. The gift of Empathy and Caring. Rest my child and be not weary in well doing!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God is with you and He sees your works. Have faith that He always rewards the faithful. God bless you hon Love Lady Marion

Dear Lord Jesus please bless this person. Please give them rest and peace and wisdom and understanding. Lord show them how much they are doing for You and encourage them to keep on keeping on no matter what the price is worth it. Bless them and keep them. Give them Your strength and Your love and Your power to go about their task You have set them to. I ask this in Jesus Name Amen

I thank you soooo much for this because you are truly at one with the Lords Spirit....

I am taking a rest now honestly. Even though I am in this rest the Lord is blessing me so much, He is even blessing my ministry, and I love Him so much because I dont deserve this. I feel better about people treating me this way. I am very careful when it comes to the things I do. Sometimes the Lord wants me to bless someone He wants to bless. I know that we will be blessed for being a blessing to anyone. Its just He has been very firm with who I associate with and what He wants me to do. I have been obedient to His spirit to the best of my ability and He is working wonders. I love you so much and I thank you for this.

Through my times of being used and abused...I forgot how worthy I am for Gods riches today. I know everyone wants money but that doesnt matter to me. Just to know that I am loved by Him makes my day. Just to know that He will give me His Holy Spirit brightens my day. Just to know that He take pleasure blessing His servants makes me smile. I have to tell you I dont have the money I use to but I am receiving something far more greater than money.

I am so excited about everything He has in store for me and you. You are worthy, you deserve everything you desire, you are His princess and you shall be pampered like one. Your blessing is coming, whatever you need, you will have and sooner than you think too! Keep your focus on the Lord and His Spirit....Give Him praise because whatever it is that you need in your life you will reap your harvest. You are beautiful and you are worthy. You are a desirable woman of God and someone out there is ready to LOVE you like Christ loves the church.

 

[callida]

I feel as though i've just read the speech i gave my mother a few weeks ago. I'm not a very outgoing person, so I don't have many friends, and I don't know whether they care about me or not. You might find that your body is lacking omega 3. I take two omega 3s a day. They help in mood, bone strength, and pretty much everything else. I still feel like you do a lot, but not as badly. Whatever you do, don't consider suicide. God put you here for a reason. Now, here is my MAIN advise, which you would be wise to follow. Don't give yourself time to think. Do a lot of community service. Meet NEW people. Take a lot of walks and say hello cheerily to everyone. Even if you don't feel happy, say hello to EVERYONE. I found that when I first started talking happily to people when I felt depressed, i felt empty, like I was faking, but when they started talking back... it was the most wonderful feeling in the world. I do hope you feel better soon. **smile**

Callida