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vic74

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You ever get the feeling that you're gettin no love on the CF?

negative or sarcastic responses

gettin your thread pushed down

felt ganged up on

not receiving a response at all

anonymous members leaving impolite messages to you

members starting a new thread with negative implications that's coencidentally similar to your thread

for instance; you start a thread stating that "you're tired of being overwieght," and then someone else may start a new thread stating "why do some people complain about being overwieght an not wanting to do anything about it?"

Just wanted to know if you ever felt that way. I know in the past I have.:sigh:

 

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Hm, rude messages and being ganged up on. It's too bad that some folks thrive on doing such pettiness. It is best to ignore such negativity. When a new thread pops up about a similar topic, and how they lack understanding, then enlighten and educate them. Reply with love about how 'different things have been tried and some encouragement always helps.'

God bless you all.
 
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Well, yes this type of behaviour does exist here, everywhere else on the internet and offline as well.

All this wicked behaviour will not stop either until Jesus sets his feet on the Mount of Olives.

Jesus told us that there will be many people in the Churches that will not belong to him. MANY.

So i agree with our sister who posted before me that just keep showing Jesus in you, because the majority of people we talk to on here and in our life time will not have love, WHO IS GOD.

God is Love and Love is God.

I will be keeping you in my prayers for strength!

There are only FEW.
QA11
 
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You ever get the feeling that you're gettin no love on the CF?

negative or sarcastic responses

gettin your thread pushed down

felt ganged up on

not receiving a response at all

anonymous members leaving impolite messages to you

members starting a new thread with negative implications that's coencidentally similar to your thread

for instance; you start a thread stating that "you're tired of being overwieght," and then someone else may start a new thread stating "why do some people complain about being overwieght an not wanting to do anything about it?"

Just wanted to know if you ever felt that way. I know in the past I have.:sigh:
Well, I am not on here as much as I once was, and I may not be that observant, but I haven't noticed this myself.

One idea would be to notice where you tend to run into these people... if it is in particular areas of the foru.ms, then try some areas that those individuals don't seem to frequent as much.

Also, you can report anonymous pm's because senior staff can see who sends anonymous blessings. So there's only anonymity offered as long as rules aren't broken.

I hope that you find the areas to post in that you'll feel loved and respected. I hope the 30+ Fellowship can be one of them.
 
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JPPT1974

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People do that just to make themselves feel
Better at others expense
So don't let it get to you
Remember there are a lot of nice people on here too!
 
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