You may want to edit this. Do people really need to divorce their spouses if they die? You said this twice in the article.
Being more restrictive than Moses is not inconsistent with the other 'Ye have heard that it hath been said' verses in Matthew 5. Jesus took a verse on murder and taught that whoever said "Thou fool" would be in danger of hell fire. He took "Thou shalt not forswear thyself" and said "Swear not at all." He took "Thou shalt not commit adultery" and said that whoever looked at a woman in order to lust after her had committed adultery with her already in his heart. He took "'Love thy neighbor' ... but hate thine enemy" and a said to love your enemies (the 'Love thy neighbor' part was Old Testament.)
Why wouldn't his teaching on divorce be more restrictive? Just look at the words in Matthew 5 and look at the debate in Judaism. Clearly Jesus was more restrictive. In Matthew 19, he shows us that Moses allowed divorce because of the hardness of their hearts, pointing back to the original "two shall be one flesh" of creation.
So yes, more restrictive. A higher standard from the Messiah. Not the same old stuff everyone else was saying.
That's pretty restrictive.
Here, John Piper talks about his own restrictive view of marriage and divorce. I am not sure I completely agree with him, but it is compelling. It is also a very compassionate way of what might otherwise be a 'hard line' on divorce.
Does the Bible allow for divorce in the case of adultery? - YouTube
Jesus constantly affirms Gods true principles, which in those verses is marriage.
Pretty restrictive. The apostles took it that way. They said if this be the case with a man and his wife, it is better for a man not to marry. Apparently, they had been affected by the liberal views of their day.
Again, we see in the words expressed for any reason the liberal view. Jesus rebuts that position by referring to the creation story- back to first principles. Then Jesus refutes their belief that, because Moses allowed for a certificate of divorce they were justified in doing the same. Jesus was pointing out to them that it was never Gods intention for marriage that it be prematurely ended.
You are mistaken. Paul did
not say that he had received this from Christ. To the contrary, he said that he had
not received this as a commandment from the Lord.
Let us look at the Lord's commands versus the part where Paul said he was speaking and not the Lord.
It seems this abandonment part, the part that Paul said was from him and not the Lord, is the part that gets a lot of attention on this topic. Not only is it applied to abandonment from unbelievers. But also to someone who 'departs' emotionally, even a believer. I've heard this passage stretched and applied numerous ways.
Let's put the abusive spouse issue aside for a moment. There are a lot of other issues at stake about preserving life in some of the more extreme cases. We can talk about how 'abuse' has gotten watered down in meaning to.
I want to focus on that last part. I just don't see this as a strong line of reasoning. "Nowhere in Scripture are we told to submit ourselves to evil."
Wasn't it evil for wicked men to crucify an innocent Man on the cross? Isn't it evil for a harsh master to beat a Christian slave for doing well?
Children's safety is certain an important consideration.
Let's say there are some serious problems in a relationship. If things get bad and the couple does separate, does the couple need to divorce, with the possibility of remarrying? What is this verse in there for?
11But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
Can you show me anyone in the Bible who had this kind of thinking?
This comes off to me as mushy relativistic thinking. Where did anyone have a marriage in the Bible that was so bad it wasn't a marriage? Where does anyone think or talk like that in the Bible?
This sounds like a bad marriage, but a bad marriage is still a marriage. The writing of divorcement law was given through Moses. The reason for the divorce was to legally dissolve the marriage. If the marriage wasn't a marriage anymore, then it wouldn't be a marriage. Then Christ came, pointing to marriage at the creation, and calling us to a higher standard.
John Piper points out the God took Israel back, even after this.
What about, "But from the beginning it was not so." ?