It is at this point where the fictitious husband crosses the line from instruction and correction into abuse and "lording it over" his wife. Which, btw, is strictly PROHIBITED in the New Covenant community.
Matt 20.25 But Jesus called them to Himself and said, “You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great men exercise authority over them.
26 It is not this way among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant,"
To any man who "insists" or "demands" submission from his wife, I present Hebrews 13.17 which tells men to obey and submit to their congregational leadership. "What if your pastor approached you and said 'I insist - no, I demand! - that you submit to me as God designed...' "
Heb 13.17 Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they keep watch over your souls as those who will give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with grief, for this would be unprofitable for you.
Sometimes it actually opens their eyes to what they have been doing.