Hi
I'm a 23 y o Adelaide girl who is housebound with severe allergies. This shocks most people, but I try my best to be positive and live as normally as possible My reaction to chemicals is anaphylactic shock which is deadly, but only so if I'm around those things which affect me. Staying home means I am protected, being in my chem-free environment.
The hardest part of all is dating. Being 23, I'd like to believe I will have a partner; just that God wishes me to break past this challenge, along with my other challenges. Because I am housebound, giving birth or having a child would be very difficult, hence why I label myself, "childfree". This is where dating is a disaster! Men I meet want children most of the time, the rest just out for casual sex. Sex is a difficulty because I am allergic to all contraceptives on the market and surgical procedures; plus the fact that although I have been intimate with one person (before illness ), I wish to save myself for someone special. The fact that the only contraceptive safe for me would be my man to get a vasectomy, means a lot of men are chased off because there is no chance of me agreeing to a casual encounter.
But, still there is the challenge of finding a man whose responsible, respectable and compassionate who is willing to sacrifice their fertility for a girl who has nothing to offer but heart and intelligence. Qualities often disregarded in a material world. I'm pretty, funny, easygoing, passionate, intelligent, and keep busy with hobbies and a dream of writing success, but these mean almost nothing to today's fast-paced world.
I cannot go to church, so attending church is not possible for me. My mother always taught me you can worship anywhere, and so I wait and wonder what God's plan is for me. I hope out there somewhere is the man for me - but where do I look! Your typical chatroom male is not the moralistic male I'd like!
Thankyou for listening, S
I'm a 23 y o Adelaide girl who is housebound with severe allergies. This shocks most people, but I try my best to be positive and live as normally as possible My reaction to chemicals is anaphylactic shock which is deadly, but only so if I'm around those things which affect me. Staying home means I am protected, being in my chem-free environment.
The hardest part of all is dating. Being 23, I'd like to believe I will have a partner; just that God wishes me to break past this challenge, along with my other challenges. Because I am housebound, giving birth or having a child would be very difficult, hence why I label myself, "childfree". This is where dating is a disaster! Men I meet want children most of the time, the rest just out for casual sex. Sex is a difficulty because I am allergic to all contraceptives on the market and surgical procedures; plus the fact that although I have been intimate with one person (before illness ), I wish to save myself for someone special. The fact that the only contraceptive safe for me would be my man to get a vasectomy, means a lot of men are chased off because there is no chance of me agreeing to a casual encounter.
But, still there is the challenge of finding a man whose responsible, respectable and compassionate who is willing to sacrifice their fertility for a girl who has nothing to offer but heart and intelligence. Qualities often disregarded in a material world. I'm pretty, funny, easygoing, passionate, intelligent, and keep busy with hobbies and a dream of writing success, but these mean almost nothing to today's fast-paced world.
I cannot go to church, so attending church is not possible for me. My mother always taught me you can worship anywhere, and so I wait and wonder what God's plan is for me. I hope out there somewhere is the man for me - but where do I look! Your typical chatroom male is not the moralistic male I'd like!
Thankyou for listening, S
