being raised a catholic and dragged to church weekly i rebelled against god and claimed to be agnostic. did all the wrong things, hung with the wrong people, partied etc, but then an illness sorted all that out. during recovery i met a wonderful lady who is the mother of my daughter (childbirth was a turning point in my mind as to who runs us i mean man cant get the trains to run on time, so someone very special is in control) i am slowly realising and remembering my christian teachings. my question is.....i am not yet married and have a 3 year old daughter to my partner..is this forgivable in the eyes of the lord? 
