Just go to the Forum Main Category Page, and at the top left hand box next to your avatar is an easy to use color scheme dropdown menu for your convenience so that it is easy for you to choose your color schemes! 
Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.