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joeswe

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My family (wife and newborn) live outside of NYC. We have decided that we do not want to raise our children in or around the big city. We decided that we would start keeping our eyes open for a new job elsewhere in the country. We have little requirements other then a preference for warmer weather and of course good schools, nice people and wholesome living.

We prayed that God would open a door to the next stop for our family.

Shortly later, without any provocation, a customer suggested I interview for an opening at his company which is located in the Northern portion of our country. This area is very far from our ideal goal of a warmer weather climate. By the way, I really enjoy outdoor activities and selfishly wish for warm weather to enjoy my pursuits year round.

My wife and I discussed the area, and while it would be a nice place to live for many reasons, we turned down the opportunity to interview because of the harsh winters. Knowing this was the first opportunity that we had been presented, and being in no real rush, we decided to "hold out" for a more exciting location.

It is now nearly a month later and I feel very guilty. Upon further reflection, I wonder if God was opening a door for us that I selfishly closed because it did not fit my ideal area for entertainment.

It likely is not too late for me to call that customer back and ask if the job is still open. Do you think I should be investigating this opportunity that was placed in my lap as it could be God providing a great opportunity for our family or do you think we should trust our initial reaction that we would "enjoy" somewhere else more?

Thank you for any input.
 

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Guilt feelings aren't from the Holy Spirit. If you're feeling conviction about it, there's no harm in reaching out and seeing what the opportunity might offer. But God will open (or close) doors for you when you prayerfully consider the opportunities in your life to seek his direction, and ultimately he allows you to use your free will for these kinds of decisions.
 
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